{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"EFR 915: Why Money Is the #1 Reason Relationships Fail, Why You Should Never Fall in Love With Potential and Why Your Partner Is Your Biggest Financial Decision with Pattie Ehsaie","description":"This epsiode is brought ot you by Quickbooks, Audible and Caldera Lab. What if the most important financial decision you ever make has nothing to do with investing, real estate, or your career\u2014but who you choose as your partner? In this powerful episode of Ever Forward Radio, Chase sits down with attorney, financial expert, and author Pattie Ehsaie for a no-nonsense conversation about money, power, relationships, and financial independence\u2014especially for women. Pattie breaks down why \u201cnever falling in love with potential\u201d isn\u2019t cold, it\u2019s practical; why money remains the number one cause of relationship failure; and how financial independence is not about greed, but freedom. Drawing from her own journey as an immigrant, lawyer, and self-made financial authority, Pattie shares hard truths about hustle, mindset, modern dating dynamics, the \u201clonely male epidemic,\u201d stealth wealth, prenups, and why owning your financial future is the ultimate form of personal sovereignty. Follow Pattie @duchessofdecorum Follow Chase @chase_chewning ----- 00:00 \u2013 Why Your Partner Is Your Biggest Financial Decision 01:35 \u2013 Meet Pattie Ehsaie &amp;amp; Her Core Philosophy on Money and Power 02:04 \u2013 \u201cNever Fall in Love With Potential\u201d Explained 04:10 \u2013 Dating a Broke Mindset vs a Broke Bank Account 04:56 \u2013 When You Support a Man, You Become His Mother 07:00 \u2013 Financial Red Flags Most Women Ignore 11:10 \u2013 The Money Talk: Credit Scores, Savings &amp;amp; Debt 12:09 \u2013 Why Money Is the #1 Reason Relationships Fail 13:33 \u2013 Why Men Fake Wealth (And Women Don\u2019t) 18:15 \u2013 What Happens When the Provider Loses Everything 23:20 \u2013 Why Financial Independence = Power 25:10 \u2013 Women Out-Earning Men &amp;amp; the \u201cLonely Male Epidemic\u201d 29:18 \u2013 What\u2019s Wrong with Andrew Tate\u2019s Money Narrative 31:48 \u2013 How to Be a \u201cRich B*tch\u201d: The 5-Account System 36:28 \u2013 Why Starting to Invest Late Costs You Hundreds of Thousands 38:16 \u2013 Hustle vs a Broke Mindset 41:27 \u2013 Prenups, Assets &amp;amp; Protecting Your Future 42:53 \u2013 Women Who Did Money Right (Oprah, Taylor Swift) 44:36 \u2013 Fake Rich vs Real Rich (Why Housewives Go Broke) 50:13 \u2013 Pattie\u2019s Immigrant Story &amp;amp; Relentless Work Ethic 55:38 \u2013 Ever Forward ----- Episode resources:  Get 30% off six months of Quickbooks 20% off men's skincare and haircare with code EVERFORWARD at Caldera Lab  FREE 1-month trial of Audible Watch and subscribe on YouTube  ","author_name":"Ever Forward Radio with Chase Chewning","author_url":"https:\/\/www.everforwardradio.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/39449615\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/0a0a0b\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/196672570"}