{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 228: Christian-ish Podcast: Yes You Need to Change","description":" Is it true that \u201cthe right person will love you just as you are\u201d? Yes\u2026 and no. In this episode, Keshia breaks down the uncomfortable but necessary truth: if you want a healthy, loving, stable relationship, you will need to grow. Not change your identity but absolutely evolve your habits, your mindset, your emotional patterns, and your expectations.  This episode is a loving (but firm) invitation to look inward so you can stop repeating toxic cycles and finally become the woman aligned with the relationship you want.  What You\u2019ll Learn  Why \u201cnew year, new me\u201d actually matters when it comes to your dating life  The hidden ways women resist change and how that sabotages relationships  Why chemistry is often trauma bonding, not compatibility  How your brain pulls you toward what\u2019s familiar, even when it hurts  Why healthy men expect accountability, communication, and reciprocity  Why relying on a man to \u201csave\u201d you financially or emotionally creates desperation  How to become more interesting, grounded, and emotionally mature \u2014 without changing who you are  Scripture to Anchor This Episode  \u201cEverything that\u2019s good to you isn\u2019t good for you.\u201d Wisdom from Grandma, backed by Proverbs 14:12 There is a way that appears right, but in the end it leads to destruction.  Need Support Along the Way?  Keshia\u2019s coaching program From Toxic to Thriving is open now. If you\u2019re ready to heal your love blocks and meet your purpose partner with clarity and confidence, apply today.  Click here:&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/keshiarice.com\/from-toxic-to-thriving-coaching-program\/  Connect with Keshia: \ud83d\udcf1 Instagram | TikTok | BlueSky \u2192 @KeshiaRice  https:\/\/instagram.com\/keshiarice https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@keshiarice https:\/\/bsky.app\/profile\/keshiarice.bsky.social   \ud83d\udcac Message her your biggest takeaway or next step from the episode.  More Resources:  Take Back Your Power: A Journal to End Self-Sabotage&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/keshiarice.gumroad.com\/l\/selfsabotage?layout=profile  Ditch the Deadweight \u2013 Heal from a Breakup in Six Weeks&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/keshiarice.gumroad.com\/l\/breakupguide?layout=profile  Explore expert coaching and empowering courses by Keshia on Gumroad:&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/keshiarice.gumroad.com\/  Heal from past relationship trauma by booking a consultation, schedule here&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/calendly.com\/keshiarice\/cherished-feminine-dating &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"Christian-Ish","author_url":"https:\/\/www.keshiarice.com\/podcast","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/39352225\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/196399510"}