{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Building Bridges: How God Uses Us to Restore What\u2019s Broken","description":" In a world where it feels easier than ever to tear each other down, what would it look like if we became women who intentionally build bridges instead of burning them? In this episode, Pastor Lisa walks through the topics of connection, honor, forgiveness, and the holy work of reconciliation. This one will stretch you, bless you, and remind you of the power you carry as a builder in God\u2019s kingdom. This episode dives into the heart of what it means to be a bridge builder, a woman committed to connection, honor, and intentional growth. Pastor Lisa brings real, practical, sometimes hilarious, and incredibly convicting truth about the ways we build up or tear down the relationships God has entrusted to us. From the dangers of gossip and complaining to the beauty of forgiveness and wise building, this conversation invites us into a higher standard: becoming women who reconcile, redeem, and restore. You\u2019ll feel encouraged, challenged, and empowered to examine your own bridges and commit to building what lasts. 00:28 \u2014 The purpose of a bridge: connecting what\u2019s been separated. Pastor Lisa shares why God calls us to be \u201cbridge builders\u201d in the Women of Arise. 01:52 \u2014 How complaining, gossip, dishonor, and speaking death burn the very bridges we\u2019re called to build. 03:36 \u2014 Entering her 50s, Pastor Lisa reflects on the value of connection... and who\u2019s going to wipe her later in life! 05:44 \u2014 Learning not to burn bridges even after mistakes; choosing not to unfollow people just because we disagree. 07:10 \u2014 \u201cNo one can hurt me unless I allow them.\u201d 08:39 \u2014 Becoming wise builders who leave room for reconciliation. The story of keeping the porch light on for Bekah. 11:21 \u2014 Matthew 7:24-27: Jesus\u2019 teaching on the wise and foolish builders and our ability to build well. 14:00 \u2014 Being faithful with what God has given now. Not neglecting blessings simply because they don\u2019t look like what we want. 16:30 \u2014 Ways we burn bridges: dishonor, disrespect, and the power of valuing others. John Bevere\u2019s Influence on Understanding Honor. 19:27 \u2014 Gossip and slander: Proverbs 16:28. Gossip separates close friends and destroys bridges. 24:22 \u2014 Unforgiveness and bitterness: bitterness builds walls, not bridges. 25:30 \u2014 Pride and self-righteousness: how long will we wait to cross the bridge? 26:10 \u2014 Division and offense: the enemy doesn\u2019t have to destroy the church if he can divide it. 27:57 \u2014 Neglect and apathy: ignoring your husband\u2019s needs weakens the bridge of your marriage. 30:02 \u2014 Complaining and cynicism: Numbers 12. Complaining keeps us wandering when God calls us forward. 36:24 \u2014 Five ways to build bridges: Speak life (Ephesians 4:29) Choose forgiveness (Colossians 3:13) Listen with love (James 1:19) Practice gratitude Be a peacemaker 40:18 \u2014 Bridges are built intentionally - Matthew 5:9. 41:24 \u2014 The ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18\u201319). 44:04 \u2014 Closing prayer and blessing. Plus: a reminder about the February 2026 Arise Conference. REGISTER FOR ARISE CONFERENCE 2026 TODAY! https:\/\/www.inspirechurch.live\/events\/arise-conference\/  ","author_name":"I AM HER","author_url":"http:\/\/www.LisaKai.tv","html":"