{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 20: Create Family Values to Keep the Peace at Home","description":"If you\u2019re tired of feeling out of sync\u2014different expectations, different discipline styles, different priorities\u2014this is your moment. Join us for the Same Page Parenting Workshop, our last workshop of the year.  \u2728 Grab the free Back-to-School Worry Toolkit for calm mornings and confident kids! Come hang out with me on Instagram @sacredgroundcoaching for more tools like this! Ever look up and think, \u201cHow did we get here?\u201d That, my friend, is called missional drift\u2014and every family experiences it when life gets busy, schedules get wild, and you\u2019re parenting on autopilot. In today\u2019s episode, I\u2019m taking you behind the scenes of how Justin and I create our Family Values Method\u2014the exact process we use every year during our end-of-year reflection getaway (yes, two nerds and a hotel room\u2026 but make it meaningful). I\u2019ll walk you through:\u2714\ufe0f Why every family needs clearly defined values\u2714\ufe0f How values keep your home grounded during chaos\u2714\ufe0f Our 7 Glenn Family Values (and the daily moments that shaped them)\u2714\ufe0f How these values guide discipline, decisions, and sibling dynamics\u2714\ufe0f How to create your own list in a way that\u2019s simple, fun, and actually works And if you\u2019ve been feeling a little out of sync with your co-parent lately, this episode is your warm nudge toward clarity, connection, and (finally) getting on the same page. \u23f1\ufe0f Timestamps & Episode Highlights 0:00 \u2013 Why We Started an End-of-Year Planning Tradition Renting a hotel room, ditching the distractions, and creating a marriage\/family game plan. 1:54 \u2013 The Method Behind Our Same Page Parenting Workshop How our yearly reflection routine turned into a workshop we now teach to other parents. 3:12 \u2013 Why Families Need Values Just Like Businesses Do Understanding family culture; avoiding missional drift; how daily decisions shape long-term direction. 5:40 \u2013 What \u201cMissional Drift\u201d Really Means The small, everyday misalignments that pull families off track\u2014and how values bring you back. 7:05 \u2013 How We Ask the Big \u201cCulture Questions\u201d What do we want our home to feel like? What do we want our kids\u2019 friends to say about being in our home? 9:00 \u2013 Our 7 Glenn Family Values (Deep Dive + Real-Life Examples) Clear Is Kind (thanks, Bren\u00e9 Brown) Eat the Frog (hello, Mark Twain + math homework) Life or Death (the power of our words) Open Hands (flexibility + generosity) Lead With Gratitude (especially at dinnertime) Same Team (the phrase we use constantly) Make Your Circle Bigger (kindness, inclusion, and raising good humans) 20:17 \u2013 How These Values Shape Daily Decisions From chores to friendships to tone of voice\u2014values become the go-to coaching tool. 23:05 \u2013 Why These Values Haven\u2019t Changed (Even Though They Could) Reevaluating yearly; keeping them meaningful rather than decorative. 26:10 \u2013 What It Looks Like to Create Your Own Family Values Getting granular, choosing values that matter, and including every family member. 28:55 \u2013 Want Help Creating Your Family Values? Join the Same Page Parenting Workshop A quick overview of what you\u2019ll walk away with in just two hours. \ud83c\udf31 Key Takeaways Every family has a culture\u2014values just make it intentional. Without clear values, families drift toward habits, stress responses, and default patterns. Values keep the \u201ctrain on the tracks.\u201d They guide daily decisions, relationship repairs, discipline strategies, and the tone of your home. Kids rise to the values they help create. When children participate in choosing the values, they take ownership of them. Your values don\u2019t have to be fancy\u2014they just have to be real. \u201cEat the Frog\u201d and \u201cSame Team\u201d are two of ours, and they work beautifully. Reviewing values yearly helps prevent misalignment. Life changes, kids grow, and your values can grow with your family. \ud83d\udc9b Ready to Get on the Same Page With Your Co-Parent? If you\u2019re tired of feeling out of sync\u2014different expectations, different discipline styles, different priorities\u2014this is your moment. Join us for the Same Page Parenting Workshop, our last workshop of the year. What you\u2019ll get in two hours: A clear list of family values unique to your home A simple yearly planning method (the one Justin and I swear by) Alignment in discipline, expectations, communication, and routines Practical tools you can use immediately A sense of calm, clarity, and \u201cwe\u2019re actually doing this together\u201d \ud83d\udc49 Snag your seat here (insert link) Two hours. Two seats (you + your co-parent). $60 total. Clarity + connection = totally worth it. ","author_name":"Emotions With Ease","author_url":"https:\/\/www.sacredgroundcoaching.com\/podcasts\/emotions-with-ease","html":"