{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"#62: Why Evil Seems To Win (And What To Do About It)","description":"It\u2019s easy to look at some of the biggest villains in history (both real and fictional) and assume that they were evil incarnate. It\u2019s easy because it frees you from the burden that you could become just like them.  But pure evil doesn\u2019t exist. In fact, so much of the evil you see in the world is just pain that\u2019s been unexamined and unhealed, and then unleashed on others. That\u2019s why history is riddled with the oppressed overcoming the oppressors and then doing the exact things the oppressors did to them to others.  This doesn\u2019t only happen in politics or wars. It happens in your personal and professional life too. Wounded parts left unintegrated dish out the same wounds to others that caused them.  The solution isn\u2019t blind kindness nor hardened cynicism. The only solution is to integrate them, and let each sword sharper the other. Or, as I like to call it, learning how to become a Hawkish Dove.  That\u2019s what you\u2019ll discover in this episode: How to become a Hawkish Dove, not so you can conquer evil, but so you can integrate what evil has taught you.  Listen now. Show Highlights Include: How attempting to protect yourself from pain leads to evil behaviors (5:53)  The insidious way misplaced virtues morph into weapons that hurt the people you love the most (7:38)  How to muster the courage to face your own wounded parts before they transform you into what you despise (8:14)  The \u201cHawkish Dove\u201d method for balancing strength with compassion so you protect yourself against betrayal and being lured to the dark side (12:10)  5 steps to integrate your parts fully so you can fight evil without becoming it (19:59)  For more about David Tian, go here: https:\/\/www.davidtianphd.com\/about\/  Feeling like success in one area of life has come at the expense of another? Maybe you\u2019ve crushed it in your career, but your relationships feel strained. Or you\u2019ve built the life you thought you wanted, yet there\u2019s still something important missing. I\u2019ve put together a free 3-minute assessment to help you see what\u2019s really holding you back. Answer a few simple questions, and you\u2019ll get instant access to a personalized masterclass that speaks directly to where you are right now. It\u2019s fast. It\u2019s practical. And it could change the way you approach leadership, love, and fulfillment. Take the first step here \u2192 https:\/\/dtphd.com\/quiz ","author_name":"Beyond Success","author_url":"https:\/\/www.davidtianphd.com\/","html":"