{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"343: Speak Up with Judge Rosemarie Aquilina","description":"In today\u2019s episode, Heather Hansen sits down with her good friend and returning guest, Judge Rosemarie Aquilina, Michigan judge, author, and trailblazer best known for presiding over the Larry Nassar USA Gymnastics case. Together, they dive into Judge Aquilina\u2019s newest book, Speak Up: Lessons in Trusting Your Instincts, and unpack what it truly means to embrace your voice, conquer fear, and stand in your self-worth. Drawing from her decades on the bench, her time in the military, and her role as a mentor for women, Rosemarie shares how we can turn fear into fuel, failure into wisdom, and change into growth.     In this episode, you\u2019ll learn: The Power of Fear \u2013 Why fear isn\u2019t something to eliminate but something to learn from. Owning Failure \u2013 How accepting your mistakes can transform them into moments of strength. The \u201cBlue Ink\u201d Lesson \u2013 How one lawyer turned public embarrassment into a courtroom victory. The Language of Leadership \u2013 Why small word choices (like using the instead of a) can change how people perceive your authority. Embracing Change \u2013 How preparation, adaptability, and voice help you thrive through uncertainty. Building Self-Worth \u2013 Why being your own hero is the foundation of authentic confidence.     In this episode: [00:00] Meet Judge Rosemarie Aquilina, her story from Munich to Michigan\u2019s first female JAG Corps member [02:00] Fear, failure, and the courage to show up anyway [06:30] The \u201cblue ink\u201d courtroom story and lessons in embarrassment [09:30] How metaphors and language shape persuasion [11:00] Embracing change, preparation, and control [15:40] Why Judge Aquilina never asks \u201cwhy\u201d [18:00] The difference between a solution and the solution [22:00] How to be an insider in your own life [26:00] Writing as a tool for self-discovery and healing       Resources & Links: \ud83d\udcd8 Speak Up: Lessons in Trusting Your Instincts \u2013 Buy the book here \ud83c\udf10 Follow Judge Rosemarie Aquilina \u2013 Website   Connect with Heather: Schedule a call with Heather Follow Heather on Instagram Follow Heather on Facebook Website Watch Episodes on Youtube Heather\u2019s TikTok \u200d heather@elegantwarrior.com The Elegant Warrior Podcast and content posted by Heather Hansen is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user\u2019s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.   ","author_name":"The Elegant Warrior with Heather Hansen","author_url":"https:\/\/advocatetowin.com\/","html":"