{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"From Sexless Marriage to Orgasmic Life:  Xanet Pailet on Healing Shame, Energy &amp; Intimacy","description":"We were told not to talk about money, sex, or politics but that rule kept us small. This episode cracks open sexual shame, emotional safety, and the truth about real intimacy. Former healthcare lawyer Xanet Pailet left a 26-year sexless marriage at 50 and rebuilt her life as a sex and intimacy educator. In this raw, liberating conversation, we unpack how breath, sound, and movement move sexual energy from the root to the heart, why emotional safety is the doorway to desire, and how your core desires, to be adored, taken, or cherished, often echo childhood wounds and even ancestral patterns. If you\u2019re done performing and ready to feel, this is where empowerment starts. \ud83d\udc49 Connect with Xanet: howtoimprovemylovelife.com Get her free 3-minute tools and videos to improve your love life. \ud83d\udcda Explore Kathy\u2019s books: Unlearn the Crap &amp;amp; Level UP: Your Soul Is Calling and How I Unlearned My Crap \u2014 available on Amazon and in bookstores. Visit unlearnthecrap.com to read more or apply to be a guest. \u2699\ufe0f Discover FINALLY: Build a podcast that grows without burnout at finallypodcastautomation.com \u2014 automate production, growth, and repurposing so your voice never gets lost. \ud83c\udf10 All things Kathy Baldwin: https:\/\/kathybaldwin.me Quotes Xanet Pailet   \u201cSafety is the doorway to desire.\u201d   \u201cYour core desire comes from your core wound\u2014know it, honor it, communicate it.\u201d   \u201cSexless marriage is a symptom of injured emotional connection.\u201d   \u201cBreath, sound, and movement turn performance into presence.\u201d   \u201cWhen the second chakra is blocked, everything above it shuts down.\u201d   Kathy Baldwin   \u201cYour body keeps the promises your mouth refuses to speak.\u201d   \u201cPleasure is a birthright, not a reward for perfection.\u201d   \u201cIf you\u2019re done performing and ready to feel, this is where empowerment starts.\u201d   \u201cChallenge everything so you can achieve anything including an orgasmic life.\u201d   ","author_name":"Unlearn The Crap &amp; Level Up Your Soul is Calling","author_url":"https:\/\/unlearnthecrap.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/38619160\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/194319665"}