{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"When Fights Test Your Relationship: Handling Conflict in Consensual Non-Monogamy","description":"In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major fights and moments of emotional turbulence. They answer a viewer\u2019s heartfelt question about whether a serious fight means the lifestyle \u201cisn\u2019t right\u201d for them \u2014 and reveal why the opposite is often true.  Drawing from over two decades of experience, John and Jackie explain that conflict is a normal part of any relationship, not just open ones. They share how fear, unfamiliarity, and emotional overwhelm can spark arguments \u2014 and how learning to communicate calmly and empathetically can turn those same moments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. They also discuss how to \u201cbaby step\u201d through difficult moments by adjusting boundaries and pacing, creating space for healing and rebuilding trust. This episode reminds viewers that consensual non-monogamy isn\u2019t simply about sexual exploration \u2014 it\u2019s about cultivating safety, self-worth, and authentic partnership through honesty and emotional awareness.    \ud83d\udd11 Key Insights: Fights happen in all relationships \u2014 they don\u2019t mean you\u2019re failing in non-monogamy Fear often underlies conflict; naming it builds empathy Approach fights as a team instead of adversaries  Emotional reactions can differ from intellectual acceptance Baby-stepping through boundaries rebuilds safety and trust Keep discussions focused to prevent escalation Conflict can be a catalyst for growth and deeper intimacy \u23f1\ufe0f Timestamps: 00:00 \u2013 Introduction to Open Love 101 podcast 00:32 \u2013 Overcoming fights in consensual non-monogamous relationships 01:36 \u2013 Fear as a common root of conflict 03:19 \u2013 Approaching disagreements as a team 05:45 \u2013 When emotions clash with logic 07:31 \u2013 Rebuilding trust with baby steps 08:55 \u2013 Keeping conversations concise and constructive 10:36 \u2013 Growth and self-esteem through consensual non-monogamy  ","author_name":"The Openlove101 Show","author_url":"http:\/\/openlove101.com","html":"