{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"EP 43: Mailbag: Marriage Pressure, Broke Behavior & Too Independent?","description":"This week on So What Now?, I kicked things off with a few thoughts on all the buzz surrounding the Woman Evolve conference and shared a little bit about what the experience was like for me personally. We also wanted to catch up with y\u2019all, so we took some time to dig into a couple of listener letters because let\u2019s be honest, our inbox is overflowing and these topics deserved some attention. One letter came from someone feeling the heat from her mom to get married ASAP, and we talked about how to honor your own timeline without blowing up the family cookout. The other came from a woman who\u2019s thriving solo, but keeps getting told she\u2019s \u201ctoo independent\u201d to be dateable. We unpacked the difference between being self-sufficient and emotionally unavailable, and how to leave room for love without shrinking yourself. And then we heard from someone whose ex just won\u2019t let go still liking her posts, sending memes, and dropping \u201cI miss us\u201d texts every week. We got into why men do this, how to set real boundaries, and why sometimes, hitting that block button isn\u2019t petty it\u2019s necessary. As always, we kept it real, gave our best advice and honestly, who needs a therapist when you\u2019ve got me and Dex? LOL.   CONNECT WITH US ON SOCIAL MEDIA: CARLA WILMARIS | DEX \ud83d\udcf1INSTAGRAM: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/thesowhatnowpodcast\/ \ud83d\udcf1TIKTOK: https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thesowhatnowpod ","author_name":"So What Now? with Carla and Dex","author_url":"https:\/\/www.sowhatnowpod.com\/","html":"