{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"You\u2019re Not Broken: Stop Feeling Guilty For Being Happy After Divorce","description":"In this episode of &quot;Saying Yes Again,&quot; Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the guilt many feel when finding happiness after divorce. Challenging societal expectations that equate visible suffering with caring, they encourage listeners to embrace joy without apology. Drawing on personal experiences and public figures like Cardi B and Teyana Taylor, the hosts discuss setting boundaries, celebrating small wins, and reframing happiness as a sign of growth. Their heartfelt conversation reassures listeners that moving forward is a healthy choice, and choosing happiness after heartbreak is both valid and courageous. Follow and subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and YouTube.  Welcome and Introduction (00:00:01)&amp;nbsp;Dr. Lisa and Tony introduce themselves and the podcast\u2019s focus on second chances and love after divorce. Introducing the Topic: Guilt After Divorce (00:00:36)&amp;nbsp;They introduce the episode\u2019s theme: feeling guilty for being happy after divorce. Describing Post-Divorce Guilt (00:01:22)&amp;nbsp;Discussion about the common feelings of guilt when enjoying life after divorce. Societal Expectations and Guilt (00:03:31)&amp;nbsp;Exploring how society expects visible sadness after divorce and how that fuels guilt. The Impact of Guilt and Staying Stuck (00:04:33)&amp;nbsp;How guilt keeps people stuck and prevents healing and moving forward. Society\u2019s Unspoken Rules About Divorce (00:05:04)&amp;nbsp;Unpacking the cultural expectation to \u201cwear pain like a badge of honor\u201d after divorce. Personal Experiences with Guilt and Healing (00:08:30)&amp;nbsp;Dr. Lisa and Tony share their personal experiences with others\u2019 expectations and their own healing timelines. Permission to Be Happy (00:10:19)&amp;nbsp;Affirming that it\u2019s okay to be happy, laugh, and look forward to the future after divorce. Happiness Doesn\u2019t Mean You Didn\u2019t Care (00:11:03)&amp;nbsp;Clarifying that happiness after divorce doesn\u2019t mean you didn\u2019t care about your marriage. Media Examples: Cardi B and Teyana Taylor (00:12:03) Discussing public figures who embraced happiness after divorce despite criticism. Practical Steps to Overcome Guilt (00:15:59)&amp;nbsp;Offering concrete steps: reframing your story, setting boundaries, and celebrating small joys. The Ripple Effect of Happiness (00:18:06)&amp;nbsp;Explaining how personal happiness positively impacts others and breaks cycles of guilt. Hosts\u2019 Personal Journey to Happiness (00:18:57) Dr. Lisa and Tony reflect on their own journey from heartbreak to happiness together.   &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.","author_url":"https:\/\/sites.libsyn.com\/576435","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/37413155\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/37413155"}