{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"The Truth About Changing Your Name After Divorce: The Emotional and Professional Reality","description":"In this episode of "Saying Yes Again," Dr. Lisa and Tony explore the emotional and practical journey of changing one\u2019s name after divorce and remarriage, especially for women over 50. Dr. Lisa shares her personal experience of reclaiming her maiden name while embracing her new identity with Tony. The hosts discuss societal expectations, the impact on family and professional life, and offer practical advice for navigating the process. They encourage open communication, self-reflection, and seeking support, reminding listeners that rediscovering identity is a personal journey worth embracing at any age. Introduction and Episode Theme (00:00:01) Hosts introduce themselves and the podcast\u2019s focus on second chances and rediscovering identity after 50. Name Change as Part of Identity (00:01:04) Dr. Lisa introduces the topic of name changes after divorce and remarriage, especially for women. Dr. Lisa\u2019s Personal Name Change Journey (00:03:24) Dr. Lisa shares her experience of changing her name after marriage, keeping it after divorce, and the emotions involved. Emotional Aspects of Name Change (00:05:19) Discussion about the emotional weight and identity tied to one\u2019s name, including professional and family connections. Mixed Emotions and Digital Footprint (00:08:27) Exploring the mixed feelings, digital identity, and the sense of loss or renewal that comes with changing a name. Options for Name Changes (00:11:21) Overview of choices women have: keeping, hyphenating, reverting to maiden name, or creating a new name. Dr. Lisa\u2019s Decision and Process (00:13:57) Dr. Lisa explains her choice to resume her maiden name and add her new husband\u2019s name, and the slow transition process. Reactions from Friends, Family, and Colleagues (00:15:28) Feedback and support received from social media, friends, and professional contacts regarding her name change. Practical Steps and Paperwork (00:17:54) Details on the practical aspects: updating legal documents, professional licenses, and the overwhelming nature of the process. Impact on Relationships (00:19:33) Considerations for how name changes affect children, spouses, friends, and the importance of communication. Advice for Navigating Name Change (00:24:45) Practical tips: take your time, test drive the new name, list pros and cons, and talk to others for support. Legal Disclaimer and Professional Advice (00:30:23) Reminder that hosts are not attorneys and listeners should seek professional legal advice for name changes. Closing Reflections and Podcast Outro (00:31:43) Final thoughts on the journey, encouragement to follow the podcast, and invitation for topic suggestions.   ","author_name":"Saying Yes Again: Helping midlife singles and couples rewrite their love story.","author_url":"https:\/\/sites.libsyn.com\/576435","html":"