{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 371 - Why Do They Want To Try That?","description":"When your spouse suggests trying something new sexually, like a different position, a toy, or even roleplay, it can catch you off guard. Maybe your first thought is, \u201cWhere did that come from?\u201d and your second is, \u201cDo I have to say yes to this to make them happy?\u201d These moments can stir up all kinds of questions: Is this who they really are? Is something missing in our relationship? Are they getting ideas from somewhere else? In this episode, we\u2019re slowing that moment down. Instead of jumping to fear or assumptions, we\u2019re taking a closer look at what\u2019s really going on. Why do we want to try new things in the first place? What do those desires actually mean and what don\u2019t they mean? We\u2019ll talk about how to approach these conversations with curiosity and compassion, and how being honest about our desires can actually bring us closer. Because trying something new doesn\u2019t mean your marriage is broken - it might be an invitation to grow, together.   ","author_name":"Sex for Saints","author_url":"http:\/\/amandalouder.com","html":"