{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"ep 121 \/ Is Your Relationship Haunted by Ghosts of the Past?","description":"Ever feel like you\u2019re arguing with your partner\u2019s past self\u2014or like they\u2019re stuck seeing you as who you used to be? In this candid and insightful episode of Relationship Dish, Pam and Iona explore the \u201cghosts\u201d that haunt our relationships\u2014old dynamics, traumas, and one-dimensional perceptions that get projected onto our partners and shape how we relate. From confirmation bias to emotional overfunctioning, they unpack how unresolved experiences (from childhood and from earlier stages of the relationship itself) can distort the present\u2014and block growth. Iona shares a personal story about her pattern of going into Superwoman mode when her husband is unwell, and how her default reactions are slowly changing\u2026 even if the \u201cghost\u201d of her old self still lingers. Pam opens up about facing similar struggles with her daughter. Tune in for heartfelt reflection, a few laugh-out-loud moments, and some powerful insights on how to give your partner\u2014and yourself\u2014the space to evolve. ","author_name":"Relationship Dish","author_url":"http:\/\/relationshipdish.com\/","html":"