{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"108: Center for REALTOR\u00ae Development: Mastering Win-Win Negotiation Strategies with Evan Fuchs: Part 1","description":"Today\u2019s topic is so essential: negotiation! It has always been important. As our markets have  been shifting and industry changes are happening, we need to go back to remembering the basic  and core tenets of good negotiation while also understanding the nuanced parts of that shift  within the market and the specific needs of our clients.  My guest today, Evan Fuchs, is a 28-year award-winning REALTOR\u00ae and industry leader from  Bullhead City, Arizona. Negotiation is one of those topics we need to learn about all the time.  Unless you\u2019re writing a book on negotiation, I suggest more education is helpful. I love learning  from skilled negotiators wherever I come across their books or meet them, like Evan or even some  of my clients, who teach me new ideas and angles to consider in my negotiation. Evan and I both  believe in the long-term value of win-win negotiations in real estate.  Evan shares insights on building relationships and finding mutually beneficial outcomes. We  discuss the importance of offering options, how crucial it is to get professional training, and the  value of tangible and intangible negotiation elements. Evan will tell you what those are. Let\u2019s learn together!  We are releasing this interview in two episodes. This is Part 1.  [2:04] I am so glad to have Evan Fuchs with us today on the podcast! Welcome, Evan!  [2:12] Evan is one of the very successful nice guys! If you ever get to meet Evan, talk to him. He\u2019s  delightful, smart, and friendly. We\u2019re going to talk about negotiation, and he is the perfect person to have  with us to talk about relationship negotiation because he\u2019s kind and respectful.  [2:33] We will discuss a win-win negotiation atmosphere and why that\u2019s good. Evan, you\u2019re a 28-year  veteran, broker-owner, board member extraordinaire, association president, and winner! (Evan says that  introduction will put a pep in his step!)  [3:05] Monica describes her impostor-fighter shelf of awards and statues that remind her that she\u2019s  awesome at her job and connected. She recommends you have a shelf like that, and whenever you need  a boost, look at your shelf and say, \u2018Yeah, I got this\u2019!  [3:35] Evan heard Monica talk about the importance of celebrating in one of her podcast episodes. Evan  is totally about celebrating, even little victories.   [3:52] The win-win negotiation model is a mindset that negotiators adopt. Instead of trying to compete  against somebody, they take responsibility for building a good relationship with the other negotiator to  work together to find good outcomes for everybody.  [4:47] Sometimes, one party does get a better deal, but can you do something to let the other party feel  like they also have a good outcome? [5:14] Dan says that options give us power. If I have the myopic view that this is the outcome that\u2019s good  for me, and I can\u2019t get you to agree with that, then the deal\u2019s dead, but if we can work together and try to  find other ways, then we have a chance of keeping the deal alive and getting to the closing table.  [5:42] It\u2019s about how to help you get what you want so I can get what I want. Let\u2019s create many ways to  get there and find the best one.  [5:51] Everybody wants a deal. You may be working with a client looking at a transaction like a war. You  have to help them find options and negotiate so both parties are happy with the outcome. Monica reminds  agents that we must train ourselves and our clients to negotiate well.  [7:06] Evan says that one out of four buyers want their buyer\u2019s agent, above everything else, to negotiate  for them. They would rather you be a good negotiator than be good at finding them a house. Monica  invites you to improve your negotiating skills. Promote them as part of your value.  [8:43] In this episode, we will keep the buyer\u2019s agent negotiating with the seller\u2019s agent for their clients as  our context. In Episode 2, we will discuss the agents negotiating with their clients for various things.  [10:09] Evan explains the tangibles and intangibles of negotiation. The top-line purchase price is tangible.  There can also be a concession further down in the contract. That is also tangible and measurable. The  things you put in the blanks on a contract refer to something measurable and tangible.  [11:21] Price is just one element of the negotiation. Think of the price, terms, and everything else involved  in the negotiation as representing a value package. Look at the bottom-line number and what you  exchange to get to that number. That\u2019s when you deal with both tangibles and intangibles.  [12:23] Value negotiating is where I offer something to you that\u2019s of higher value to you than it is to me.  This could be like moving up the closing date if you are in a hurry. We trade it for something of low value  to you but high value to me. That creates a win.  [14:00] One of Monica\u2019s favorite negotiations was between a buyer who offered under the listing price and  a seller who wanted the list price. She wrote a contract with an expiration time that if the seller could get  the list price from another buyer within a week, they could do that; otherwise, they would accept this offer.  [15:41] Evan considers that a smart, creative negotiation. Monica\u2019s client did get the house after a week,  while the seller had time to find another offer, which did not come.   [16:08] Evan notes that considering the options takes time. To develop that kind of strategy, be prepared,  know what you\u2019re doing, and spend time with the market, the property, and the client. Spend time,  especially with your client, so you don\u2019t miss the options that may be meaningful to them.  [17:14] Monica thinks some agents don\u2019t realize that the agent-to-agent relationship is valuable. The  buyer\u2019s agent has some influence when the seller\u2019s agent is looking at multiple offers. The relationship  history matters both in large markets and small ones.  [19:13] Monica and Evan discuss how personal property becomes a negotiating point. Monica says  agents in Tennessee must let their buyers and sellers negotiate personal property. Evan believes the  furniture owner places a higher value on it than the buyer. [20:42] Monica cautions her listeners that if you negotiate anything beyond appliances and attached  things, make sure you talk to your broker and know how that works in your state and local market.  [21:11] Evan says intangibles are things that can\u2019t be measured, that you can\u2019t quantify. Is this a fair  deal? How are you treating me? Are you ethical? Intangibles can be felt as opposed to being measured.  Every negotiator has both tangible and intangible interests in every negotiation. We\u2019re human, and we  care.  [21:56] Adding intangible value to a negotiation does add value even though you can\u2019t put a dollar on it.  Build a personal relationship with your client. Know what\u2019s essential to the other person and spend time  with that. That adds value. Treating the other person might get you a concession in the contract.  [23:15] Everybody has things that are important to them. So, the more you know the other party\u2026 use it  to your client\u2019s advantage, which is your job. You owe that to your clients to do that, as long as it\u2019s ethical  and honest. We need to put everything into it that we can. Adding those intangibles is part of it.  [23:50] Monica shares another negotiating example. She called an agent who had just lost the family dog.  She asked, \u201cHow can I help prepare the paperwork for our deal? I see you\u2019re having a difficult day.\u201d If  Monica finds out that an agent needs something, and she can fill it quickly, why wouldn\u2019t she offer?  [24:58] Evan calls that win-win language, offering to work as a team. It doesn\u2019t take anything away from  your client. It\u2019s also called being a good human!  [25:59] If you\u2019re not people-oriented and trying to negotiate with someone who is, it\u2019s like you\u2019re bringing  friction to the table. You\u2019ve got to take responsibility and adjust how you show up for this person and  make them feel more comfortable.  [26:16] Because Monica\u2019s a people person, sometimes she has to tell herself to \u201czip it\u201d and do her job  because she sees the other person doesn\u2019t want to chat today.  [27:06] Evan talks about the negotiation environment. You have to know the numbers; you have to know  your market. As a market professional seeking to get paid to represent clients, you have to know it. Evan  refers to the pandemic lockdown and how, after that, buyers went gangbusters.  [27:47] There were way too many buyers trying to buy the same houses. That led to the seller\u2019s market.  It\u2019s our job to help our clients, and sometimes the other negotiators, understand the market dynamics so  they understand their negotiating position. Once they do, then you can move on to strategy.  [28:15] Our opportunity to shine is helping our clients develop a negotiating strategy once they  understand their position. Evan gives the example of explaining to a buyer what it looks like to buy in a  seller\u2019s market with multiple offers, bidding wars, and buyers getting creative to sweeten the pot.  [29:06] Before you start showing houses, your buyer needs to understand that so they know how to  behave once they get into the market if they want to buy. When the right house comes up at the right  moment, they need to know how the market affects their position.  [29:34] Monica now calls the market an artificial buyer\u2019s market. In some towns, at some price points,  houses stay on the market for a little while longer. But we\u2019re not at that four-to-six-month range for most  people. [29:51] In an extreme market, where one party is at an extreme disadvantage, and the other is at an  extreme advantage, negotiators can help look for a win-win. It won\u2019t be in the money because the  extreme advantage is there. That\u2019s where niceness and empathy make all the difference.  [31:01] Evan comments that the win in an extreme buyer\u2019s market is just selling your house. In an  extreme seller\u2019s market, the buyer gets the house. You won\u2019t be looking for the best deal in either  situation.  [31:23] Once you accept those negotiation parameters and start trying to find a house, everything else is  on the table. \u201cI know I\u2019m not going to get a great deal here, but here\u2019s what else is important to me.\u201d  Knowing what\u2019s important on the other side might get you the house or the sale.  [31:50] We must get through the negotiator to get to the decision-makers. You\u2019ve got to get the other  agent \u201con your side.\u201d Sometimes, we have to coach them through their job and deliver that information to  their client in a way that gets their client those secondary wins.  [32:38] When Evan and I return in our next episode, we will discuss the conversations between the  agents and their clients. That\u2019s a different negotiation environment. Join us on the next one!  [32:55] Evan\u2019s final word: \u201cRight now, so much is changing! Negotiating is an important part of navigating  these changes, whether we are negotiating to get hired on either side or helping the clients who hire us  navigate what the negotiations will look like now that we have different practices.\u201d  [33:21] It\u2019s a whole new ball game that creates opportunities for people to step in and thrive! I get kind of  excited about having these conversations! I\u2019m looking forward to continuing on the next one with you!\u201d  [33:39] Thank you so much to Evan Fuchs for sharing his wisdom with us! You can find more  opportunities to learn about negotiation at Learning.REALTOR. There are micro-courses there, taught by  Evan and by Lynn Madison.  [33:51] You can also link to the real estate negotiation expert certification class from there. Please attend  some negotiation classes. Your associations are offering lots of opportunities right now. If it\u2019s not your  local one, you may be able to travel a little bit and find one nearby.  [34:09] Also, there are some great books on it. Read some books or watch some of the amazing online  videos to help teach you great negotiation tools.  [34:17] As you\u2019re moving through the changes in the industry, don\u2019t miss the opportunity to learn from  your experiences as you\u2019re having conversations with your clients, your friends, and your family, hear  what they\u2019re saying, and that will also help you be more prepared.  [34:33] Thank you so much for joining us! Come back and join us for Part 2. I\u2019m Monica Neubauer for the  Center for REALTOR\u00ae Development, and I hope you are busy out in the field selling lots of properties!  Tweetables:  \u201cWhile most people focus on price, it\u2019s just one element of the negotiation. So we want to think more  about value. What does that price plus the other terms and everything else involved in the negotiation  represent as a value package?\u201d \u2014 Evan Fuchs \u201cEverybody has things that are important to them. So, the more you know the other party, the more use  those conversations to your client\u2019s advantage, which is your job. You owe that to your clients to do that,  as long as it\u2019s ethical and honest.\u201d \u2014 Evan Fuchs  \u201cIf you\u2019re somebody who\u2019s not people-oriented, and you\u2019re trying to negotiate with someone who is, it\u2019s  like you\u2019re bringing friction to the table. You\u2019ve got to take responsibility and adjust how you show up for  this person and make them feel more comfortable.\u201d \u2014 Evan Fuchs  \u201cWhether negotiating to get hired on either side or helping the clients who hire us navigate what the  negotiations are going to look like now that we have different practices, it\u2019s a whole new ball game, and  that creates the opportunity for people to step in and thrive!\u201d \u2014 Evan Fuchs  Guest Links:  Evan Fuchs, Broker\/Owner of Bullhead Laughlin Realty, Speaker, Educator  NAR Resource Links  ABR\u00ae Accredited Buyer\u2019s Representative  Additional Links:  Crdpodcast@nar.realtor  Crdpodcast.REALTOR  Learning.REALTOR \u2014 for NAR Online Education  Training4RE.com \u2014 List of Classroom Courses from NAR and its affiliates  CRD.REALTOR \u2014 List of all courses offered  Host Information:  Monica Neubauer  Speaker\/Podcaster\/REALTOR\u00ae  Monica@MonicaNeubauer.com  MonicaNeubauer.com  FranklinTNBlog.com  Monica\u2019s Facebook Page: Facebook.com\/Monica.Neubauer  Instagram: Instagram.com\/MonicaNeubauerSpeaks  Guest Bio  Evan Fuchs ABR, CRB, CRS, GRI, RENE, RSPS, SRS, e-PRO  Evan Fuchs speaks nationally on leadership, sales, strategic planning, and team-building.  A recognized industry leader with 28 years of experience, Evan is a past state president, four-time  REALTOR\u00ae of the Year, and has been the broker\/owner of Bullhead Laughlin Realty in Bullhead City, AZ,  since 1999.  Evan combines his experience in business and leadership with a down-to-earth style to deliver engaging  and actionable programs. In addition to designations and certifications, such as the Accredited Buyer  Representative, Certified Residential Broker, and Real Estate Negotiation Expert, Evan presents and  develops custom programs, including the Arizona Leadership Training Academy. He is also a John  Maxwell Certified Leadership Trainer.  A proud dad, accomplished concert-goer, and lifelong learner, Evan loves collaborating with individuals  and teams who aspire to produce their best work. ","author_name":"Center for REALTOR\u00ae Development","author_url":"http:\/\/www.CRDpodcast.com","html":"