{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Fantasies, Secrets &amp; Good Sex with Dr. Toni Bear","description":"  In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with sexologist and intimacy expert Dr. Toni Baer. We dive into sexual identity, fantasies, and the power of secrets in relationships. Dr. Toni shares how her personal journey\u2014from high school teacher to sexologist\u2014was shaped by a deeply personal family tragedy that ignited her passion for helping others embrace their desires and navigate sexual identity.   Along the way, we explore common sexual fantasies, why some are better left unspoken, and how privacy and consent shape intimate conversations. Dr. Toni also reveals how secrets can create stress in relationships offering guidance on how to balance openness with discretion.   From cultural perspectives on sexuality to vetting within kink and polyamorous communities, this conversation sheds light on how our different backgrounds can shape different desires. Dr. Toni also teases her upcoming TV show,  The Voyage of Desire, offering a global look at human passion.   Listen in to discover how understanding your fantasies\u2014and the role of secrets in your life\u2014can lead to deeper intimacy and greater self-acceptance.&amp;nbsp;   Tune in wherever you listen to podcasts, and don\u2019t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review!   Connect with Dr Toni&amp;nbsp;   Website  -  https:\/\/www.tonibearedd.com\/&amp;nbsp;   Free Gift:  Aphrodite\u2019s Love Secrets  &amp;nbsp;https:\/\/www.tonibearedd.com\/opt-in&amp;nbsp;   Annual ReAwakening Women's Retreat in Costa Rica. https:\/\/www.tonibearedd.com\/retreats   Connect with Deborah   Got questions about sex and relationship?\u2028   Podcast Feedback  DeborahTantraKat@Gmail.com&amp;nbsp;   Book a breakthrough session with Deborah   \u2028https:\/\/app.acuityscheduling.com\/schedule.php?owner=11737312&amp;amp;appointmentType=60692935&amp;nbsp;   \u2028Sex and Relationship tips direct to you Inbox   \u2028https:\/\/deborahkat.us5.list-manage.com\/subscribe?u=428b26a12a8810bb5012792c3&amp;amp;id=ff89fb0d94   \u2028Questions and Answers&amp;nbsp;  Substack:  https:\/\/substack.com\/@deborahkat ","author_name":"The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations","author_url":"http:\/\/deborahkat.com\/better-sex-podcast","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/35914335\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/186361700"}