{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Hot Topics Ep. 3 - Letting Your Children Fail: Using Setbacks to Foster Growth &amp; Resilience","description":"In this episode of Hot Topics, hosts Will Cox and Dr. Jennifer L. Baker discuss the importance of allowing children to experience failure as a tool for growth. They explore how overcoming setbacks builds resilience, decision-making skills and long-term success. Will shares a personal story about his son procrastinating on a school assignment and his initial instinct to step in and &quot;fix&quot; the situation. Dr. Baker provides insights on why failure is a crucial learning experience and how parents can balance support with accountability. They also discuss how financial literacy, responsibility and discipline are best taught through firsthand experience. This episode is a must-listen for parents struggling with when to intervene and when to step back helping their children become strong independent individuals.   Episode Highlights [00:46] &quot;Allowing them to fail is more difficult than teaching them to succeed.&quot; [02:46] &quot;I stopped and thought\u2014oh my gosh, I'm allowing my child to commit plagiarism. Why am I doing this?&quot; [05:12] &quot;I had to pay for the repairs of my car when I was 16 years old. That changed how I saw responsibility.&quot; [11:08] &quot;Give them the chance to fail when the price tag is small.&quot; [14:48] &quot;My husband said, \u2018Wow, they got places that can do that. You should call and figure it out.\u2019 So my son had to solve the problem himself.&quot; [16:33] &quot;Years later, my son knew how to handle a snowstorm because he had to learn the hard way before.&quot; [22:24] &quot;Children can adjust to different rules in different households\u2014just like they do at school.&quot; [24:17] &quot;Michael Jordan, Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill\u2014what motivated them? Failure.&quot; [25:40] &quot;You're not always going to be there. Let them make mistakes now while it's safe, before they enter the real world.&quot;   Resources \ud83d\udce9&amp;nbsp;Sign up for the&amp;nbsp;Good Dads Newsletter and never miss a podcast! \ud83c\udf10 Learn more at&amp;nbsp;gooddads.com \ud83d\udce7&amp;nbsp;Questions or comments?&amp;nbsp;Reach out to&amp;nbsp;Good Dads&amp;nbsp;at&amp;nbsp;info@gooddads.com &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"Good Dads Podcast","author_url":"http:\/\/www.gooddads.com\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/35858465\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/186211535"}