{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode #288: Why Asking for What You Want (and Actually Getting It!) Feels So Wrong","description":"Why does getting what you want sometimes feel so wrong? You finally speak up, advocate for yourself, and even win\u2014but instead of feeling victorious, you\u2019re hit with guilt, second-guessing, or a sudden urge to backtrack. What is up with that?&amp;nbsp;  Well, in this episode, I\u2019m sharing a real-life situation that left me wondering ...  why asking for what I want feels so uncomfortable why&amp;nbsp;getting what I want can feel so much worse than just going with the flow, and how this is all tangled up with people-pleasing, perfectionism, and a deep DEEP desire for certainty.  So if you\u2019ve ever struggled to stand your ground, let\u2019s talk about how to move forward with confidence\u2014minus the emotional whiplash! &amp;nbsp; Links mentioned:  The Sensitive &amp;amp; Strong Community Cafe: https:\/\/CheriGregory.com\/Cafe\/ Take the \u201cAm I a Highly Sensitive Person?\u201d Self-Quiz:&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/CheriGregory.com\/hspquiz\/    Episode Webpage:&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;https:\/\/CheriGregory.com\/episode288 &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"Grit \u2018n\u2019 Grace: The Podcast for Highly Sensitive Christian Women","author_url":"https:\/\/cherigregory.com\/podcast\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/35531420\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/35531420"}