{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Love Doesn't Always Go as Planned \/ Divorce + Social Media = A Recipe for Trouble!","description":" What NOT to Do on Social Media During a Divorce \u2013 Straight Talk with Jill Spielberg Valentine\u2019s Week is all about love, but let\u2019s be real, love doesn\u2019t always go as planned. And when it doesn\u2019t, social media can make things way worse (like Exhibit A in court worse).  That\u2019s why I brought in Jill Spielberg, partner in charge of the Family and Matrimonial Law Department at Abrams-Fensterman LLP, to drop some major truth bombs about social media and divorce\u2014what not to do, what could cost you in court, and even how to protect your kids. Biggest Takeaway? STOP POSTING! According to Jill, the best thing you can do during a divorce is take a social media hiatus. That vacation selfie? That vent session about your soon-to-be-ex? That new relationship post? All of it can be used against you. Even \u201cfriends\u201d might not be real friends when emotions run high. A few ways social media can totally backfire: *Posting about your amazing new life while claiming you can\u2019t afford child support *Sharing party pics that could be used in a custody battle *Saying anything negative about your ex\u2014your kids might see it, too! The Flip Side: Can Social Media Help During a Divorce? Not really, says Jill. But if you must post, make it positive\u2014like supporting your co-parent\u2019s achievements. Otherwise, keep the drama offline. Why Divorce Hits Hard During Valentine\u2019s Week January is known as Divorce Month, but February can be brutal too. While stores are overflowing with hearts and candy, many people are struggling through heartbreak. If that\u2019s you, know this: You are not alone.  ill\u2019s pro tip for avoiding divorce in the first place? APPRECIATION. The #1 reason couples split isn\u2019t money or infidelity\u2014it\u2019s feeling unappreciated. Let that sink in. A Personal Story of Divorce  Years ago, my daughter, an only child of divorce, always swore someday she'd have her own house and host every single holiday so she\u2019d never have to \u201cchoose\u201d between parents on a holiday again.  Well, fast forward, and guess what? My ex-husband, his current wife, his former wife after me, her current husband, myself and my significant other, all these years later actually granted my daughter her wish. Here we are all sitting together at one big happy holiday table this year. Now that\u2019s growth! If you\u2019re navigating divorce (or know someone who is), this episode is a must-listen. Enjoy this full conversation with Jill Spielberg. She\u2019s an award-winning attorney who focuses on high-net-worth divorces, high-conflict custody cases, and prenuptial agreements.    ","author_name":"The Debbie Nigro Show","author_url":"http:\/\/www.debbienigro.com","html":"