{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"#426 How the Twelve Steps Offer a Surprising Path of Transformation with Ian Morgan Cron","description":"  Happy New Year! I\u2019m SO excited to be back with you all and to kick off the year by welcoming back an incredible returning guest,  Ian Morgan Cron. If you haven\u2019t had a chance to catch his   previous episode,  you might recognize him as the author of   The Road Back to You,  or as the host of the popular  Typology podcast.  &amp;nbsp;   &amp;nbsp;   Ian is a psychotherapist, an Enneagram teacher, an Episcopal priest and the author of  several other books.  His new book releases at the end of this month, called,  The Fix: How the Twelve Steps Offer a Surprising Path of Transformation for the Well-Adjusted, the Down-and-Out, and Everyone in Between.   &amp;nbsp;   I\u2019m thrilled to have him back on the show to share his heart behind this book and how everyone, no matter where they are in life, can benefit from the twelve steps. This conversation is rich, deep, and packed with insights you won\u2019t want to miss!&amp;nbsp;   2:38 \u2013 Ian 201&amp;nbsp;  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Continuing Enneagram, coaching and podcast work  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Songwriting for Netflix  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Ian\u2019s new book, The Fix   &amp;nbsp;7:54 \u2013 The Genesis of The FIx&amp;nbsp;  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Why Ian wanted to write this book  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Understanding the twelve steps  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Finding the balance between powerlessness and healing&amp;nbsp;   14:28 \u2013 Looking at Modern Addictions&amp;nbsp;  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Craving control  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The need to play God  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Denial as an addiction   23:07 \u2013 Hugging The Cactus&amp;nbsp;  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Why everyone needs to \u201chug the cactus\u201d  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Accepting \u201cunacceptable\u201d parts of yourself  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The connection between self-awareness and spiritual growth  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The power of the twelve steps for all walks of life   39:56 \u2013 Seeking Progress, Not Perfection  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The difference between reformation and transformation  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; How this process has impacted Ian\u2019s life  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The role of community in the transformation process  \u00b7&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Closing thoughts + pre-ordering your copy of The Fix   &amp;nbsp;   FEATURED QUOTES   \u201cThe 12 steps are not just for alcoholics, drug addicts, over-eaters, gamblers, spenders, shoppers or whatever\u2026Everybody's on the addiction continuum somewhere, and everybody can experience the same liberation, joy, freedom and happiness that people that self-identify as addicts or alcoholics do.\u201d&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;   \u201cThe one thing that stands between you and you becoming the person you want to become is the truth.\u201d   \u201cThe parts of you that you have rejected all your life- all the quote-on-quote \u2018crappy, sinny stuff \u2018going on in there- is actually still at work. And until you welcome it home and accept the unacceptable about yourself, you will never accept that you've been accepted by God. And that's really important work.\u201d   \u201cThere's a lot of people of faith out there who have just tried to hate themselves into becoming better people. You can't do that. You can't shame yourself, beat yourself up. You have to welcome these parts of yourself home and tell them that all of you is welcome.\u201d   &amp;nbsp;   Learn more about Ian:   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/ianmorgancron.com\/   &amp;nbsp;   The Typology Podcast   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/www.typologypodcast.com\/   &amp;nbsp;   Pre-order Your Copy of The Fix   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/ianmorgancron.com\/thefix   &amp;nbsp;   Ian\u2019s Other Books   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/ianmorgancron.com\/books   &amp;nbsp;   Ian on Facebook   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/IanMorganCron\/   &amp;nbsp;   Ian on Instagram   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/ianmorgancron   &amp;nbsp;   Ian on LinkedIn   &amp;nbsp;   https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/ianmorgancron\/ ","author_name":"Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?","author_url":"https:\/\/www.stillbeingmolly.com\/podcast","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/34768960\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/183192175"}