{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 40- 10 Ways to Have Better Sex Part 2","description":"God\u2019s plan for sex in marriage is one of enduring intimacy. He created sex as a good gift to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage. Biblically it should be the married couples having the wild and amazing sex, not the single people.  In our last episode, we gave you two ways to start having better sex, let\u2019s pick back up that discussion.   Please And Be Pleased Once you know what your spouse likes, do it. Sex is not about being selfish. Make your spouse and their pleasure your focus. There is something very gratifying when we stop trying to be fulfilled and focus on fulfilling someone else. As Christians, we know this to be true but I don\u2019t believe we always apply this to our sex lives. When we aim to please our spouses, our spouses will most likely respond in the same way. It\u2019s a win-win for everyone. Don\u2019t Rely On Your Mood There will be plenty of times in marriage where sex can not happen because of legitimate issues. So with that in mind, let\u2019s not turn down the opportunity when it can. Just because you are \u201cnot in the mood\u201d is not a good excuse.  Instead of using it as an excuse not to, use sex to change it! Don\u2019t Overlook The Quickie In marriage, you do not always have candlelight and romance, but maybe you have ten minutes while your baby is napping. Perhaps you both have a few minutes before you have to get ready for work. Let\u2019s take advantage of these little pockets of time to be intimate with our spouses.    www.abeautifuladventuremarriage.com ","author_name":"A Beautiful Adventure Marriage","author_url":"https:\/\/sites.libsyn.com\/450339","html":"