{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 318 Honest Conflict","description":"I used this week\u2019s episode to channel my frustration when one of my weekly groups came to a close. Trust was violated and the facilitator violating trust didn\u2019t acknowledge or own up to his behavior. I marveled at how uncomfortable people can be with conflict, myself included. Do I name the elephant in the room? Do I remove myself from this game of pretending? It takes courage to deal with conflicts honestly.  \u2028Most people opt to sweep problems under the rug, clinging to the concept of being the ideal family or the ideal group. They choose dishonest harmony rather than honest conflict. It\u2019s a delicate balance speaking up when everyone else is invested in dishonest harmony. Here\u2019s to not sweeping problems under the rug. Here\u2019s to learning the skills of addressing conflicts constructively. Here\u2019s to the courage and authenticity to live into your truth. Here\u2019s to discerning how and when to address conflict honestly. Enjoy the podcast! ","author_name":"Enlighten: Uplift &amp; Inspire","author_url":"http:\/\/www.enlighten.nyc","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/32553207\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/a3b04f\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/176144927"}