{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":" 20: Scott Oldford - Growing your Network One Dinner at a Time","description":"Today&amp;rsquo;s episode is about building GREAT business relationships. This is not another episode&amp;nbsp;about networking. Humans crave intimacy and great relationships. That&amp;rsquo;s&amp;nbsp;what this episode delivers.\r\nScott has hosted more than 60 &amp;ldquo;Limitless Dinners and Lunches&amp;rdquo; over the past year on a quest to build limitless relationships. \r\nA few weeks ago I received a mysterious email that intrigued me. The rest is history. Here&amp;rsquo;s the exact email I got inviting me to a Limitless Dinner.\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\nTake advantage of this philosophy and you can supercharge your relationships when travel for business.&amp;nbsp; \r\nThe dinner had 12 of us hosted at a great steak house and it was lead with 3 main questions:\r\n1.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; What are you working on\r\n2.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; What&amp;rsquo;s keeping you up at night?\r\n3.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The last question is left as a random question for example; what&amp;rsquo;s been your most pivotal moment?\r\nKey takeaways:\r\n&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Start with your network. There&amp;rsquo;s enough people in your immediate circle like 1st and 2nd degree connections to make an amazing dinner. \r\n&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; It&amp;rsquo;s NOT a Numbers Game. It&amp;rsquo;s about depth in relationships, otherwise you are just networking. \r\n&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Get the right people in the room. If you get similar, like minded people, they will naturally connect.(Scott shares a story gone wrong)\r\n&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Be the connector and facilitator.&amp;nbsp; You&amp;rsquo;re role is to make sure everyone has a chance to be involved in conversation.\r\n&amp;middot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Lunch vs. Dinner. \r\no&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Lunch works best with 4-6 people so that you can keep it to a 2hr length. \r\no&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Dinner works best with 4-8 people and needs up to 4 hours or more. Also note that dinners tend to give you more time to go deep, and the ability to go out afterwards.\r\nBook Recommendation:\r\nNever Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazi\r\nScott&amp;rsquo;s Podcast:\r\nLimitless Business Podcast\r\nExecutive Minute\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;\r\n&amp;nbsp;","author_name":"Business Basecamp","author_url":"http:\/\/businessbasecamp.libsyn.com\/webpage","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/3168796\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/3168796"}