{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"The Impact of Divorce on Adopted Children with Jane Spreckley - Ep 147","description":"\u201cI didn't want to lose them. I loved them both and I thought, it's hard to think about your life separated. I guess now knowing all that I know about being separated from the first person that I was supposed to be with, you know, I just never wanted to be separated from either one of them.\u201d -- Jane Spreckley &amp;nbsp; Episode Summary: In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, the host, Beth Syverson, interviews Jane Spreckley, an adoptee whose adoptive parents divorced when she was 14 years old. Jane shares her experience of how the divorce activated her abandonment issues and impacted her relationships. She emphasizes the importance of adoptive parents seeking therapy with adoption-competent therapists for their children during difficult times like divorce. Jane also highlights the significance of open communication and compassion within families going through similar situations. The conversation sheds light on the complexities adoptees face during divorce and the need for understanding and support.&amp;nbsp; =============== &amp;nbsp;\ud83d\udcc6 Community Calendar: UnravelingAdoption.com\/Calendar \u2728Healing the Adoption Constellation database: UnravelingAdoption.com\/Healing \ud83d\udc8cSign up for our Unraveling Adoption email list: http:\/\/eepurl.com\/hVIAVX&amp;nbsp; =============== &amp;nbsp; RESOURCES: &amp;nbsp; Jane\u2019s information: &amp;nbsp;   Find Jane on Facebook at https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/jane.spreckley.9   Email Jane at Spreck529@verizon.net   &amp;nbsp; Other Resources: &amp;nbsp;   APtitude Support Group for Adoptive Parents Facing Adoption\u2019s Challenges: UnravelingAdoption.com\/APtitude   Other Parents Like Me - oplm.com&amp;nbsp;   Heather Ross - Life Coaching for Parents who have a child struggling with addiction: https:\/\/heatherrosscoaching.com\/   &amp;nbsp; =============== &amp;nbsp; Unraveling Adoption is produced and hosted by Beth Syverson Music written and performed by Joseph Nakao Email questions or comments to Beth@UnravelingAdoption.com Find us on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube Support Unraveling Adoption on Patreon: Patreon.com\/UnravelingAdoption Check out our website: www.UnravelingAdoption.com Create your own podcast through Libsyn: https:\/\/signup.libsyn.com\/?promo_code=ADOPTION &amp;nbsp; =============== Timestamps:   00:00:00 - Introduction to Unraveling Adoption Podcast   00:05:30 - Jane's Experience with Parents' Divorce   00:10:00 - Realization of Impact from First Abandonment   00:13:30 - Advice for Adoptive Parents Going Through Divorce   00:17:20 - Advice for Adoptees Dealing with Divorcing Parents   00:20:00 - Encouragement for Self-Compassion and Support for Jane   00:21:30 - Gratitude to Patreon Supporters and Call to Share the Episode   ","author_name":"Unraveling Adoption","author_url":"http:\/\/sites.libsyn.com\/452856\/site","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/31461262\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/172448687"}