{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Ep. 16 - How To Have It All On Your Terms with Jo Peters","description":"\u201cYou shouldn\u2019t. You mustn't. You can\u2019t\u201d    How many times have you held yourself back from doing something you badly want because others or a pesky inner critic tells you not to?    If you're like me who's been wanting to lean into your intuition, claim your voice, and assert yourself more, this episode will be a game-changer!    Tune in as the one and only Unicorn Coach Jo Peters guides on the path to fearlessly and confidently having it all, on your terms.   Listen to the full episode below or on iTunes or Spotify!   Listen out for:  Get To Know Unicorn Coach Jo Peters [0:24] Fun Fact Time! [3:29] Intuition: What Is It, Really? [5:59] The \u201cGood Girl Syndrome\u201d [9:20] Tips To Starting Having It All On Your Terms [16:28] & Many More!   Quotes \u201cEverybody calls me the Unicorn Coach. The reason for this is because I think we all have magic inside of us. I think we forget about that magic and we forget about that \u2018unicorn horn\u2019... You are not a horse! You are a unicorn and you have magic within yourself!\u201d [2:48]   \u201cDon\u2019t be afraid of being curious about your intuition; that is one of our superpowers as women. That intuition, that gut feeling, that sixth sense allows us to be very good at reading our environment, at reading danger, at reading behaviors, at reading energies in the room. Then we have two choices \u2014 we can let it be an accident or we can take over it and use it with purpose for our benefit.\u201d [7:31]   \u201cThe Good Girl Syndrome is a syndrome of how we have been raised, generation after generation, in a patriarchal world where we are [subjected to] the expectation of, \u2018I need to be good. I need to be quiet. I need to behave. Nice girls don\u2019t run and get dirty.  Nice girls just stay pretty in their dresses, [etc.]\u2019\u2026 Every time our phrases start with, \u2018I shouldn\u2019t. I can\u2019t. I mustn't\u2019, that is not your own voice. That is the external voice of The Good Girl Syndrome that is taking the power [to decide] from you. [9:20]   \u201cUnderstand that it\u2019s time for you to stop being a \u2018square watermelon\u2019. In Japan they put cubes on top of the fields where the watermelons are growing. A beautiful round watermelon starts growing, but it starts growing in a box, so when it fully grows, it grows into the shape of a cube. I use that analogy because it is easy to remember. [Women] are being \u2018square watermelons\u2019 because we are working in a world designed for men, by men. Understand that there is nothing wrong with you, and that those [negative] voices are those \u2018square watermelons\u2019 trying to put you in a cube, when you are actually a freakin\u2019 amazing, round, juicy watermelon. Embrace that power and energy.\u201d [17:07]   \u201cLearn to challenge the Good Girl Syndrome: Why are you saying I should not do that? What is the reason behind that? Why do you think that is not a good idea? Because that little voice is good at telling us it\u2019s not a good idea, but as soon as we challenge  [we realize] that there is not a lot of support on why that is not a good idea.\u201d [19:47]   \u201cEverytime we find ourselves thinking that we should wait or we shouldn\u2019t do it now because it\u2019s not perfect\u2026 stop, laugh, and say, \u2018I am not pregnant. This is not my baby, this is not my son. It is not okay to go to labor at 20 weeks, but it is okay to go to labor with this idea even if it is not completely done.\u2019 It will give you the giggles, but it will start rewiring the brain pathways into, \u2018It is okay to apply with fifty percent and figure out the other fifty. It is okay. It is not going to be dangerous.\u201d [26:22]   \u201cYou can have it all, without doing it all. It\u2019s been centuries of us compromising, sacrificing, choosing, living our life not at the maximum potential, and allowing society and others to control us. It's time for us to take our space, to claim our power back, and say, \u2018You\u2019re saying I cannot have it all? That\u2019s a garbage rule! I\u2019m going to throw it away! Because I can have it all, and I can have it all without doing it all.\u2019\u2026 I can enjoy the family that I want, with the perfect partner that loves me and respects me,  and have a career that makes me feel amazing and brings enough abundance for my family and for me to help others, and to have the health that I want to have energy and feel confident in my body \u2014 and it doesn\u2019t have to be painful, it doesn\u2019t have to be hard.\u201d [28:13] Resources Mentioned  \ud83d\udd17 Coaching -  Work With Jo Unicorn Coach: Have It All On YOUR Terms!    \ud83d\udd17 Marketing - Done For You Facebook Ads Agency By Shay Bonus  Learn more about Jo here https:\/\/joannamercado.com\/    Connect with Jo on socials     \u2728Facebook - www.facebook.com\/JoUnicornCoach  \u2728Instagram - www.instagram.com\/jounicorncoach  \u2728LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com\/in\/jounicorncoach  \u2728YouTube - www.youtube.com\/@MOMFITwithJoPeters    Learn more about me here \ud83d\udc49 https:\/\/www.soulfueledlife.com\/       Connect with me on my socials    \u2728Facebook -  www.facebook.com\/shayhrobsky  \u2728Instagram -  www.instagram.com\/shayhrobsky    Dive into a world where a good life and merry festivities come together \ud83d\udc49 https:\/\/www.christmasroad.com\/    Like this episode?  Subscribe to my podcast & please leave a positive review on iTunes or Spotify. Share this with your friends on Instagram, Facebook, and your other favorite social media apps. I appreciate you and am so happy you're here!   Key Words  Intuition, Confidence, Energy, Girl Power, Transformation, Growth, Motherhood, Personal Development, Good Life  Note: Some links in this post are affiliate links, and we will be compensated when you make a purchase by clicking through our links. Thank you. Read our disclosure + terms here. ","author_name":"Hello, Good Life","author_url":"https:\/\/www.soulfueledlife.com","html":"