{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Ep. 89 Ted Rau on parallels between Relationship Anarchy and self-management","description":"What can the realm of self-management and new ways of working learn from the realm of polyamory, Relationship Anarchy and open relationships? And how can practices in self-organising work teams help us improve our personal relationships? Ted Rau is the co-founder of Sociocracy for All and author of books like \u2018Who Decides Who Decides?\u2019 and \u2018Many Voices One Song\u2019. In his personal life, he has been in monogamous relationships and, for the last seven years, in open relationships. We explore the parallels across personal and professional relationships, like what it means to \u2018be in choice\u2019, consent decision-making as a mindset more than a process, holding multiple roles, and agreement-making. Resources:   The link to buy Ted\u2019s books   The HBR article I mention, \u2018The Little Things that Affect Our Work Relationships\u2019   Alanna Irving\u2019s blog about  Relationship Retrospectives   Miki Kashtan\u2019s blog about flow, decision-making and conflict&amp;nbsp;    Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord (wouldn\u2019t it be fun to have an equivalent smorgasbord for our work relationships?)   Related Leadermorphosis episodes:     Ep. 27 with Ted Rau    Ep. 35 with Alanna Irving    &amp;nbsp; ","author_name":"Leadermorphosis","author_url":"http:\/\/tuffleadershiptraining.com","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/26797557\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/201060970"}