{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"3 habits for a successful date after matching on an app","description":"Dr. Matos shares the core skill guys lack that are necessary in having a successful date after matching on an app. These skills also create a strong foundation for a long-term relationship and having passionate sex for many years to come. Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified couple and family psychologist in Los Angeles, California. He is the founder of the charity abetterloveproject that helps people start healthier relationships from the beginning. Dr. Greg is a former Marine Corps Sergeant and recipient of the Bronze Star with Combat Valor. We cover topics like: - 1:52 Why younger men are lonelier than younger women - 4:20 It\u2019s hard to hear this advice - 6:00 Dating app tips for guys - 6:33 Core relationship skills that guys usually struggle with - 8:40 3 practical scripts to easily connect with your partner - 13:30 Tips for your dating app profile - 18:56 Dating with chronic illness, sexual pain, or sexual dysfunction - 23:55 Relationship goals - 27:40 Discussing something difficult with your partner Dr. Matos shares 3 scripts for healthy communication habits: 1) How to create a deep bond with your partner: - Ask your partner \u201cwhat was the most stressful part of your day today?\u201d - Listen and follow-up with a clarifying question \u201ctell me more about (that part)\u201d - Sharing what you think you understood from listening - Validate their experience by saying \u201cthat makes sense to me\u201d 2) How to peek into your partner's inner world: Asking: \u201cwhat are you most grateful for today,\u201d and: \u201cwhat are you looking forward to tomorrow?\u201d - Being curious about their inner world, validating their experiences, and being able to provide support 3) How to start a challenging conversation: \u201cI feel _____ about _____, I need\/want\/prefer _____\u201d - When you start a conversation with \u201cI feel,\u201d you\u2019re firing up your partner\u2019s mirror neurons - \u201cabout\u201d allows you to share a specific event, action, or experience - \u201cI need\/want\/prefer\u201d allows you to communicate what your needs are that your partner can fulfill   Finally, here's Dr. Matos' #1 dating app tip: put time and effort into nailing the first impression when you match or like someone's profile. Hinge is the best dating app for a serious relationship: you can \u2764\ufe0f a prompt and add a comment, instantly improving your chances of creating a lasting first impression.   RESOURCES: Free sex and pelvic pain resources https:\/\/drsusieg.com\/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https:\/\/drsusieg.com\/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program 2021 study that looked at loneliness around the world https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S0191886920302555 Greg Matos on Psychology Today: https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-state-our-unions\/202208\/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men CONNECT WITH DR. GREG MATOS: Website: https:\/\/www.abetterloveproject.org\/ Instagram, TikTok, YouTube: @abetterloveproject CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE): Website: https:\/\/drsusieg.com\/ Instagram: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/dr.susieg\/ _______________________________________________________________________ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications\/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. ","author_name":"In Your Pants with Dr. Susie G","author_url":"http:\/\/www.drsusieg.com","html":"