{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Victim vs Victor Mindset","description":"#314. Follow Dominick on Instagram: @DominickQ Join the Great Man Mastermind: https:\/\/www.dominickq.com\/masterminds\/the-digital-mastermind Join the Facebook Group for Men: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/TheGreatManWithin __________________________ Brother let\u2019s get real for a minute:  \u2028We\u2019ve all got a little victim mentality in us.  We\u2019ve all got at least one area of life where we struggle, and not getting the results we want.  Maybe you see others making more money than you. Maybe you see others more successful in love and romance. Maybe you see other guys have the body that you wish you had.  When we\u2019re not getting what we want, its tempting to indulge in the idea the game is rigged against us\u2026and that\u2019s why we\u2019re not winning.  Now that\u2019s not to say you don\u2019t have it harder than others in certain aspects of your life.  We\u2019re all born into different circumstances where things like money, race, physical appearance, sexual orientation and whether you grew up in a loving or broken home create uneven playing fields. And then we have different life experiences where we collect a lot of evidence as to whether the wind is at your sails, or if you\u2019re running with a parachute attached to your back.  So yes, we are all starting from different places, but we don\u2019t have to stay stuck there. As Viktor Frankl says: \u201cEverything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms\u2014to choose one\u2019s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one\u2019s own way.\u201d In other words, you have the choice to remain a victim to your circumstances \u2013 or to adopt the mindset of a victor.  In this Episode: Why being a victim feels good sometimes Why you shouldn\u2019t pay attention to the evidence  Why motivation isn\u2019t enough to change\u2026and why self-efficacy is your golden ticket What Episodic Future Thinking is\u2026and why 5,000 peer reviewed studies show it\u2019s the #1 practice to develop a sense of self efficacy  A 3 step process from shifting from Victim to Victor mindset ","author_name":"The Great Man Within","author_url":"https:\/\/www.dominickq.com","html":"