{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Fallen out of love? With Guest Aaron Dutcher","description":"In this episode, I\u2019m joined by my favorite guest, my husband, to talk about the ups and downs of our relationship. Since we\u2019ve been married and remarried, we have a few anniversaries around the holidays. We choose to celebrate each year in May, which is the anniversary of our first kiss. We were just teens when we met at a graduation party, and now we\u2019ve officially been kissing for 27 years. We\u2019ve taken the 27 years of gained experience, knowledge, and time taken figuring it out together and poured it into our book. When we talk to people about what has worked in our relationship or are offering advice, what stands out is that people really want hope. A little hope goes a long way. There was so much we didn\u2019t yet understand during our first marriage. The second time around, we\u2019ve been able to put together what support means to each of us. What it really boils down to is understanding the unique needs of your partner and communicating about them openly. The idea of falling out of love needs to be reframed. Even in difficult times, the depth of love may lessen, but you can never really fall out of it. This is especially true when you\u2019ve had kids together. If you feel like you\u2019re falling out of love, what you might actually be missing is a connection to The Divine. This can be an anchor to facilitate a greater connection to your partner. A relationship is a living, breathing organism, and it takes effort to maintain. Acknowledging where you may have more masculine or feminine energy, no matter what your role in the partnership is, can also help you navigate your differences. It\u2019s not about being perfect. You will squabble, but you can learn to figure it out.   Join us on Instagram: @perfectlyimperfectranda  @thisisdutcher Be a Co-Author in the \u201cHealing through Broken Relationships\u201d book https:\/\/www.freedomhousepublishingco.com\/be%20a%20co-author%20in%20randa's%20collaboration Listen to Randa\u2019s EP \u201cDUTCH7 Lullabies\u201d on Apple music http:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/album\/id\/1623834376 Listen to Randa\u2019s EP \u201cDUTCH7 Lullabies\u201d on Spotify https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/2BasB7vSDApuv6CLDGB3qI Listen to Randa\u2019s music on YouTube https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCchsVCJNYCiGRzCvjYC739w Randa\u2019s Website https:\/\/randa-dutcher.mykajabi.com\/ ","author_name":"Going Dutch","author_url":"http:\/\/goingdutchpodcast.libsyn.com\/website","html":"