{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"LOSS with Rebecca Soffer: Finding humor, connecting with community, and moving through grief","description":"Julie and Casey chat with Rebecca Soffer, journalist, author, and cofounder of Modern Loss, about the complicated journey and taboo subject of grief. Along the way, they get into how Rebecca found her \u201cdead mom\u201d community and what it taught her, dealing with ambiguous loss, what not to say to people who are hurting, our enormous world-wide moment of collective grief, and how to move THROUGH, not \u201cmove on\u201d. Thank you to our Season 3 sponsor, Armoire! If you're ready to try a new look, Armoire's high-end clothing rental service (full of amazing women-owned brands) will hook you up! For 50% off your first month's rental + a free item, go to http:\/\/armoire.style\/voiceis and use VOICEIS in the referral box!   TOP TAKEAWAYS: Nothing is more isolating that feeling like you have to play \u201cnormal\u201d and hide your grief because of the taboo around discussing loss. Because grief affects every corner of your life, it becomes the backdrop for so much of what\u2019s going on. The first step to dealing with grief may be simply TALKING about it . . . but there\u2019s no \u201czero vulnerability\u201d way to do that.  There is no \u201ccorrect\u201d thing to say to someone who is grieving, so you\u2019re off the hook for the perfect response, if that\u2019s keeping you from reaching out to someone. Particularly, the fear of \u201caccidentally reminding someone\u201d or bringing up their loss is misplaced . . . they know. They remember. That said, anything that smacks of a \u201cfix it\u201d mentality is probably not welcome. Just as there is no correct thing to say to a grieving person, there\u2019s no \u201ccorrect\u201d way \u2014 or even time \u2014 to grieve. There is room for humor and lightness too. Mini-Lesson: Better things to do when a friend is hurting than \u201cfix it\u201d.   Rebecca Soffer is cofounder of Modern Loss, a global movement offering creative, meaningful, and practical content and community addressing the long arc of grief. She is also coauthor of the book Modern Loss: Candid Conversation about Grief. Beginners Welcome. (Harper Wave, 2018) and an internationally recognized speaker on loss and resilience. She writes regularly across media, including the New York Times, Glamour, NBC, and CNN. Rebecca is a Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism alumna and a Peabody Award\u2013winning former producer for The Colbert Report.   Rebecca and her husband and sons split their time between New York City and The Berkshires. For more information visit ModernLoss.com.  Twitter: @rebeccasoffer @modernloss  Instagram: @rebeccasoffer @modernloss @runningpressbooks Facebook:  https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ModernLoss https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/rebeccasoffer https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/RunningPressBooks    ","author_name":"Voice Is","author_url":"http:\/\/vitalvoicetraining.com","html":"