{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"46. Sex FAQs - How do I Open My Relationship?","description":"Curious to try an open relationship, but don\u2019t know quite where or how to start? &amp;nbsp; On this episode, Sara chats with relationship coach Valentina Tudose (http:\/\/happyeverafter.asia) to answer your most common questions about open relationships, such as: &amp;nbsp;  What basic ground rules should I set if I\u2019m just starting out with open relationships How can I handle my intense attraction to a new lover since I started to open my relationship with my spouse? I want to have an open relationship, but how do I manage my jealousy? How do I bring up an open relationship to a partner that has been previously unreceptive?  &amp;nbsp; Some ground rules that Valentina and I discuss for an open relationship include: prioritizing your partner, having regular check-ins, communicating your needs with compassion, and a strong commitment to radical honesty. &amp;nbsp; We also share tips around managing jealousy and how when used constructively, jealousy can be a useful tool to help us address issues and get what we need. &amp;nbsp; We also offer reminders and tips for couples who are in the process of opening up their relationship to think about it as if they're embarking on a joint adventure or an exciting journey together.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; If you're interested in open relationships, we suggest bringing up the conversation regarding your values and beliefs around non-traditional relationship models early in the dating process to avoid a future mismatch and heartbreak. &amp;nbsp; This episode is a must-listen if you and\/or your partner are curious about non-monogamy or trying to work up the courage to open your relationship. &amp;nbsp; ---  Support this show on Patreon http:\/\/patreon.com\/betterinbed  &amp;nbsp;  Visit Sarasense website http:\/\/sarasense.com  &amp;nbsp;  Follow @hellosarasense on Instagram  &amp;nbsp;  Support our sponsor Beducated. Get 65% off their annual subscription with code BETTERINBED at http:\/\/beducate.me\/betterinbed  &amp;nbsp;  Detailed show notes for this episode  here.  ","author_name":"Better in Bed | A Sex &amp; Sexuality Podcast","author_url":"http:\/\/www.sarasense.com\/podcast","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/22531070\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/da1b20\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/content\/123740996"}