{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"88. Behind The Lens: Vulnerability &amp; Comparison with Tess Rolli","description":"Have you ever felt the nudge to compare yourself to someone else\u2019s life? As an entrepreneur, they don\u2019t tell you the part where comparison likes to creep in at a moment's notice. Comparison is the process of constantly  evaluating our own behavior, thoughts, emotions, relationships, businesses, house, clothes, looks, and lives to each other. It\u2019s one of the most damaging internal narratives we can have. With comparing comes fear of failure, fear of not being or doing enough and it can be so debilitating sometimes.&amp;nbsp; So if you ever got caught in the comparison trap I hear you, I\u2019ve been there, and so has my guest. I'm so thrilled to share Tess\u2019s story and insights into her own comparison experiences, how it affected her as a photographer, and what steps she took to create a shift.&amp;nbsp; Enjoy this chat amongst friends and tell me have you ever compared yourself to someone. About the Guest:&amp;nbsp; Tess is a documentation photographer based in Austin, Texas. . She graduated from Ut with a degree in Journalism and Cultural Anthropology. Tess knew she wanted to share diverse stories through photography and so then pursued her venture as a documentarian photographer in 2014. Tess is passionate about documenting the important moments in life from weddings, to just a typical day in life.&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; Guest Contact:  Follow Tess Rolli on Instagram, check out her website here.  Resources Mentioned:&amp;nbsp; Book: Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown ","author_name":"Caf\u00e9 with Monica","author_url":"https:\/\/cafewithmonica.com\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/22184879\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/22184879"}