{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"#14: When The Scales Fall From Your Eyes","description":"Remember the old hit Smoke gets In Your Eyes? This story I tell you today is a rebuff to these sorts of tired old romantic cliches of pop. A story about the scales falling from my eyes and the lyric from that song Something inside cannot be denied takes on a completely new meaning. Points to think about when the scales fall from your eyes: #1 Don\u2019t waste time feeling stupid in retrospect. At least you can see the truth now. #2 Think about how you can show up strong when you see them again (there is a specific strategy to this) #3 Forget trying to erase or solve the pain of the situation\/reaslisation, and focus instead on building resilience. &amp;nbsp; Email me: info {at} theshiftinside.com ","author_name":"Stop People Pleasing","author_url":"https:\/\/www.theshiftinside.com\/","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/18038666\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/88AA3C\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/18038666"}