{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Loving Yourself First","description":" Loving Yourself First  Sexy Spirituality Episode #36  (Our first episode back after hiatus!)     Host: Lezli Goodwin  Guest: Rev. Dr. Michelle Medrano, Lead Minister at Mile Hi Church in Lakewood, CO  Guest: Rev. Kathleen Sibley, solo minister at the Center for Spiritual Living in Prescott AZ     Small Talk  Lezli, Michelle and Kathleen talk about favorite Valentine\u2019s Day goodies and traditions     Loving Yourself First  Michelle and Kathleen are women who have had a profound influence on my spiritual life and my career. I\u2019m psyched!   Our topic today is \u201cLoving Yourself First,\u201d a primary aspect of New Thought teachings.  I don\u2019t know about you folks, but getting to the place where I really love myself has been a long journey  You become the sum of the five people you spend the most time with.  Michelle: Is honored that people see her as someone who loves herself outloud. She came to that place while serving as senior minister for 17 years at New Vision CSL, having to shed her need to appear perfect. The more she was her authentic self, the more she could be love and feel love. If someone couldn\u2019t love the real her, if she wasn\u2019t their cup of tea, that\u2019s okay. The deep desire to love and be loved, Real Love, couldn\u2019t be met as long as she was hiding behind a fa\u00e7ade.  Kathleen: It changes all the time, and there is so much deeper to go. She\u2019s so grateful that instead of being the intensely driven person she thought she was supposed to be, the God of her understanding loves her exactly the way she is. She gets exhausted when she tried to be what she is not. \u201cIf you try to put me up on a pedestal, you\u2019re just going to find that A. I need a pedicure and B. I don\u2019t know how to hem pants.\u2019  Letting go of the voice that says, \u201cWhat\u2019s the next impressive thing I have to do so I can earn the air I breathe?\u201d   Rev. Dr. Penny Macek\u2019s truth bombs!! She helped Lezli see the belief that she was as valuable as she was useful. Oof!  Kathleen: Was raised to believe that if she\u2019s not pleasing or serving people, why is she here? It\u2019s good to see the newer generation release this old mindset.  Michelle: Similar concern \u2013 the busier I am, the more important I am. We often need someone to be present with us, not busy. Being too busy to do spiritual practice or foster self-growth. The younger generation is much more open to spending time, money and energy on self-development.  Kathleen: It\u2019s a newer thing to love myself enough to spend the time and money on whatever I need to be the happiest. \u201cI had a real \u2018Come to Kwan Yin moment...\u201d  Michelle: We believe that big and little are meaningless in the Divine. The cumulative effect of a lifetime makes a HUGE difference. We really do impact each other for Good in ways we don\u2019t realize.  Kathleen: It\u2019s like Emma Curtis Hopkins, who almost no one knows about, but her students created whole spiritual movements and taught thousands and thousands of people.  Michelle: Anything can be a meaningful ministry. She tells a story of a task she hated doing, and how she found a way to make it meaningful. Accessing love in every mundane task by blessing it, to make a bigger impact.  When you stray from the self-love path, how do you get back on track?   Michelle: Access self-love through the deeper process of feeling and sensing your highest self. If I\u2019m living in that higher space, what would I really be thinking and feeling about this?   Kathleen: I just realize there\u2019s a little girl inside me throwing a hissy fit because she needs a metaphysical nap. So, I just hug her. I plop myself down in Divine Mother\u2019s lap and let her rock me.  Lezli: Recognize the feeling without needing to push it away, and then do the scary thing anyway. Doing that gives everyone around me permission to do their own thing, too. That\u2019s enough to pull me out of it.  Something Good  Kathleen: If you are local to Prescott, Arizona, we are reopening our labyrinth, which is open to the public. You can be a part of our community no matter where you are in the world through our online ministry at www.cslprescott.org. You can also find out more about our marketing at www.MadScience.marketing.   Michelle: I\u2019m so excited to be offering an alternative February 14 Valentine\u2019s Service at Mile Hi Church, which people can access by going to www.milehichurch.org or going to our Mile Hi Church Facebook page. We\u2019re going to do a commitment service that day. We\u2019re going to tlk about the deepened experience of Love that we can have, and commit that to ourselves, whether we\u2019re in a relationship or not in a relationship. And then for anyone looking for a future partner, we\u2019re going to commit to a future partner.  Join us!  Lezli: My something good is that we have NEW pieces of Science of Mind jewelry on our website www.newthought.shop. New colors in bracelets, some beaded earrings, good stuff. Check it out and save 20% with Promo Code \u201cSexy2021\u201d to save 20% off your order. Again, that\u2019s www.newthought.shop     If you\u2019d like to support Sexy Spirituality Podcast, please consider joining us on Patreon at  patreon.com\/sexyspirituality. From early access to episodes to patron-only content, our Patreon community gets the very sexiest stuff from us! A big thank you to our patrons for making this show possible.  If you\u2019d like to support Sexy Spirituality Podcast, please give a 5 start review on Apple Podcasts or the platform you prefer to listen on. It really does help! And please do check us out on Patreon.  Thank you for joining us for Sexy Spirituality.  I'm your host, Lezli Goodwin, spiritual mentor, minister and author at lezligoodwin.com. Our guests have been Rev. Dr. Michelle Medrano, Lead Minister at Mile Hi Church in Lakewood, CO, and Rev. Kathleen Sibley, solo minister at the Center for Spiritual Living in Prescott AZ.   Thanks for being with us!  If you have any feedback about the show, we\u2019d love to hear from you at lezligoodwin@gmail.com. You can find all of our show notes and podcast episodes at sexyspiritualitypodcast.com. Be sure to click subscribe!  We\u2019ll see you on February 26 for our next episode, \u201cRocking Recovery the New Thought Way\u201d. Thanks for joining us for Sexy Spirituality, Real Spirituality for the Modern World.  ","author_name":"Sexy Spirituality","author_url":"http:\/\/www.sexyspiritualitypodcast.com","html":"