{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Indulge in healthy conflict when you disagree","description":"Todays question comes from a discussion between Tim and I as we realised that our teams avoid healthy conflict? Actually also that I sometimes avoid healthy conflict too.. Quick summary: If I have a good relationship with the other person and I feel safe I have no problem to indulge in healthy conflict as I know that me and the other person will be ok afterwards. If I am unsure or feel unsafe its much harder.  Some things I try do to get better in every situation ... Agree how to disagree with those I find it difficult to have conflict with - it's ok to not have everyone's consensus I stop trying to present a united front if we made a decision where not everyone was in agreement. I share the disagreement and the reason why we arrived at the actual outcome. I am prepared to disagree in front of others but I make I keep it to a civil debate and approach it respectfully. Using different channels to be part of the discussion - some channels work better for me (or others) than others. Allow everyone to prepare properly - To avoid the nerves it might be better to write stuff down before hand. It also allows me (others) to be more specific. I practice debates about things that aren\u2019t directly work related to get me and other people used to conflict I need to learn to let it go after and if it happened to others help them to make peace ","author_name":"Claudia's two cents","author_url":"http:\/\/makeworkmeaningful.co.uk","html":"