{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"EMOTIONAL BYPASSING; How to Radically Change Humanity EP: 14","description":"Why do we resist the things and experiences we really want? Here\u2019s how Kelsey and Vanessa define emotional bypassing? Not acknowledging or honoring difficult things or not allowing yourself to feel your feelings. This often shows up when (usually) well-meaning friends blow off your anguish around something important by saying things like \u201cthink positive\u201d or \u201cthis will pass\u201d or when you ignore you feelings of anger (for example) instead of bringing consciousness to the issue. It\u2019s bypassing the acknowledgement that difficult things happen in life. The personal development gurus have taught that don\u2019t think about the negative or you\u2019ll get more of it. There\u2019s no change, no ability to shift things. You can\u2019t heal what you don\u2019t feel. Hear how Vanessa saw this impact her personally when she shared her cancer diagnosis. It\u2019s eye-opening to hear how she acknowledged what she needed and how it impacted her and others who know her. When is it safe for a warrior to fall apart? What can you do for someone who is dealing with trauma? Kelsey and Vanessa share what\u2019s helpful and what isn\u2019t. How can we be more inclusive? Kelsey shares how she struggled to figure out what felt right and decided that sitting with not knowing and asking questions brought the awareness she needed. She didn\u2019t bypass her discomfort around not knowing. Why are we afraid to acknowledge our emotions or the emotions of others? Kelsey explains her magic-trick to help diffuse triggers and increase awareness. This leads to real understanding, no bypassing aloud. That time when someone told Vanessa she deserved cancer. Yeah, that happened. Find out why this popped up and the way that Vanessa and Kelsey worked through it. What happens when you are centered in who you are? What\u2019s the difference in activism and living your truth? Do you have to be the warrior for your cause or is it okay to just be? What does it mean to be the change you want to see? We hear that mantra all the time but what does it really mean? Kelsey shares she\u2019s found her way and how you can find your own. How can we radically change humanity? Kelsey and Vanessa break down how change happens when we\u2019re willing to feel and acknowledge what\u2019s happening in the moment.       ","author_name":"From the Heart of a Renegade","author_url":"http:\/\/renegadeheart.libsyn.com","html":"