{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Seeking Validation &amp; Finding Your Career Fit with Beth Perlman","description":"Beth Perlman is the VP and Program Director at Gartner, working with Fortune 100 C-level executives and chief information officers on aligning operations and business goals with technology for sustainable growth. She has a long career in leading IT Administration and Operations teams and is the former CIO for Constellation Energy as well as the Maryland State Department of Education. She was previously the VP for Enron and Lehman Brothers and holds a BS in Management from Syracuse University. Beth has a passion for helping others, building strong teams, and developing leaders. Beth joins me today to discuss looking for validation from within and finding happiness in your career. Beth shares what it was like to be a female executive in the 1980s and highlights why women should support other women. She shares why it is vital to change your career if it isn\u2019t right for you and does not make you feel good. Beth discusses her leadership style and her passion for empowering people to be the best they can be. She also shares why she believes she might have been working extra hard to compensate for her weight, finding inner confidence, and the value of building long-standing relationships. \u201cIf it's not a fit for you, it is okay to leave.\u201d - Beth Perlman This week on The Unwritten Rules Podcast:  How Beth's childhood set her up for her future and shaped her career What it was like to work on Wall Street with men in the 80s Why you should make a career move if you are unappreciated while doing great work Why it is essential to recognize that it is about you and what makes you happy Building confidence, self-respect, self-worth, and independence Feeling good about what you are doing when you reach the top Beth's struggles with her weight and confidence in her personal life Why women need to support other women in their careers The value of networks and building relationships that will help you in the long term Taking on the role of \u2018fixer\u2019 and finding happiness through helping others  &amp;nbsp; Our Favorite Quotes:  \u201cI always thought you do good work; you're rewarded. What I realized in business, that has nothing to do with it.\u201d - Beth Perlman \u201cWomen don\u2019t support women enough - and that\u2019s a theme.\u201d - Beth Perlman \u201cThere are times that no matter how great your work is, you\u2019re not going to be appreciated.\u201d - Beth Perlman  &amp;nbsp; Connect with Beth Perlman:  Gartner Beth Perlman on LinkedIn  &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; Writing the Rules of Women Leadership Thanks for tuning into today\u2019s episode of The Unwritten Rules with your host, Helen Appleby. If you enjoyed this episode, please head over to Apple Podcasts to subscribe and leave a rating and review. Don\u2019t forget to follow us on Facebook and LinkedIn and share your favorite episodes across social media. And for even more great content, insight, and inspiration on women\u2019s leadership, visit our website. While you\u2019re there, be sure to grab your free gift - The Unwritten Rules of \u2018Giving Good No\u2019 - a free chapter of my latest book, The Unwritten Rules of Women\u2019s Leadership. ","author_name":"The Unwritten Rules of Women's Leadership","author_url":"http:\/\/theunwrittenrulesofwomensleadership.libsyn.com\/website","html":"<iframe title=\"Libsyn Player\" style=\"border: none\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/16220750\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/forward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/e30527\/\" height=\"90\" width=\"600\" scrolling=\"no\"  allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen><\/iframe>","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/assets.libsyn.com\/secure\/item\/16220750"}