{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Episode 54: How to accept where you are when you want to change??","description":"On this episode of the Wholeness podcast, Melissa answers the question from a listener, \u201cHow can I accept where I am when I\u2019m striving to change?\u201d Melissa reveals that just the use of the word \u2018striving\u2019 in the question says so much about the listeners mindset.    Striving is motivated by masculine energy, and based on the fear that the thing you are wanting is not happening for you. Instead of living with this mentality of lack and fear-based thinking - with the focus being on the absence of the thing you\u2019re wanting.   Melissa offers listeners the insight of being conscious of your energy while intentionally choosing to live aligned with your feminine energy in these moments, instead of trying to work hard to achieve or get the things you want.   She says that when you are living in your feminine energy, you will be in your flow and you will believe that what you want is already on its way to you. You will be in touch with your highest self and with divine guidance, and you will be able to trust what is coming to you with open arms in whatever form it comes, versus controlling the timelines or the outcome or the exact way in which it \u201cshould\u201d look.  When you are in this space, you will be more receptive and creative, spending more time in play and pleasure, and more connected to your intuitive guidance system.   Brief Outline: Feminine energy aligns with: Flow Lit up Creativity In touch with guidance Intuitive Pleasure Goal-oriented Achievement  Not allowing for guidance Doing Masculine energy aligns with: Fear of it not happening Lack mentality Masculine approach What striving evokes in you: Claiming your feminine power If it is a desire, then it is meant for you Being in a space of receptivity Law of attraction: What You\u2019ll Learn: The difference between feminine and masculine energies Striving is a masculine approach When you are in your flow, you will be filled with expectation \u201cBeing\u201d rather than \u201cdoing\u201d to get what you desire The law of attraction explained and applied to your life Being in a space of receptivity   Key Quotes:   \u201cThe word \u2018striving\u2019 alone is a very masculine view, a very masculine approach and mentality.\u201d   \u201cDid you ever notice that when you really want something, you can\u2019t get it?\u201d   \u201cWhen we\u2019re in our worth and in our flow, we just believe without a shadow of a doubt that the thing we\u2019re wanting is on the way to us.\u201d   \u201cMay it be this or something greater.\u201d   \u201cTransformation is not a goal. It\u2019s a never-ending evolution.\u201d   \u201cI trust and love where I am, and I trust and know where I\u2019m going.\u201d   \u201cThis is my desire. Show me the way.\u201d   \u201cShow me the way for my highest good with my highest joy.\u201d   \u201cIf it\u2019s a desire, then it\u2019s meant for you.\u201d   \u201cWe learn more quickly when we are in our joy, in our bliss, and when we are a \u2018yes\u2019 to life.\u201d   Episode Resource Links Get Your Wholeness Podcast FREE Gift: https:\/\/melissa-kathryn.lpages.co\/mirror-work\/ \u201cAttached\u201d book: https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind\/dp\/1585429139   Melissa Kathryn\u2019s website: http:\/\/melissakathryn.com\/    Join MK\u2019s Exclusive FREE Online Community: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/yourjourneytowholeness\/ Receive additional FREE trainings with Melissa Kathryn on Youtube Here: https:\/\/bit.ly\/34rqlM Do you have a question, need support or want Melissa to coach you?  E-mail:  support@melissakathryn.com   Other Relevant Links: Eat Right for your Archetype Quiz: http:\/\/melissakathryn.com\/quiz\/ Website to learn more: http:\/\/melissakathathryn.com\/   Follow Melissa on: Instagram: https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/melissa.kathryn\/ YouTube: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCp8zL6mzH5-Hs2R2Sxfdf7g Melissa Kathryn\u2019s Facebook page: https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/radiancemk ","author_name":"Wholeness with Melissa Kathryn","author_url":"http:\/\/melissakathryn.com\/podcast\/","html":"