{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Ep 27: The Second Biggest Mistake People Make When Divorcing and How to Avoid It","description":"In today's episode, certified divorce coach and family law attorney Zeppy Attashian addresses the second biggest mistake you can make when negotiating the terms of your divorce- adopting the "My Way or the Highway" mindset.    Navigating your difficult emotions during this time can lead to acting out of frustration, anger, and anxiety for your future. Even if you force your way into litigation over a contentious issue, it may not always work out in your favor.    Zeppy does a deep dive into why this is such a dangerous (and often costly) line of thought. She provides you with the four steps to reframe this mindset, evaluate your emotions, and approach your negotiations with a clear head and a variety of perspectives. You'll learn how to ultimately come to a compromise that really works for you and your soon-to-be-ex.    For further one-on-one guidance, take advantage of our FREE 30-minute consultations with one of our divorce coaches here! www.decodingdivorce.com\/contact  ","author_name":"Decoding Divorce","author_url":"http:\/\/www.decodingdivorce.com","html":"