{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Help Me Find\u00a0Love,\u00a0Zander Fryer &\u00a0Maddy\u00a0Applin","description":" Former 10,000 "No"s guest Zander Fryer met his fiance, Maddy Applin from across the world after being pushed to post a Facebook Live in his Business Group in 2017 entitled "Help Me Find Love". He was in San Diego and she was in Australia.  They now live together in Encinitas, California.  You'll hear the details of how Maddy moved halfway across the world for love, but all you need to know right now is that your approach to life, whether in business or in love, determines the results you will get.  In keeping with our theme, if you're lonely this Valentine's Day perhaps you need to examine where you are limiting your own opportunities with internal "no"s that are preventing you from meeting the person of your dreams or creating the life and career that you desire.    SHOW NOTES:  Meeting together in 2017 from a Facebook Live event, (5:07). \u201cThis is something that a lot of people do. Once you\u2019ve had your heart broken once, you never want to have your heart broken again.\u201d, (9:55). \u201cYou can get really comfortable just crafting your craft, and that is the comfortable piece. I got really comfortable working on myself because that is the piece that I enjoyed and that made me feel good, but actually putting myself out there and going on dates is the really scary piece.\u201d, (11:05). Maddy listening to a podcast and finding out about Zander and his work, (13:27). Making a commitment to yourself to get out of your comfort zone with bold requests, (15:09). Maddy persevering by reaching out again after a botched \u201csecond date\u201d, (20:45). How Maddy works with her clients around belief systems and dealing with their subconscious limiting beliefs, (27:20). \u201cThey might have the outward success and everything they have dreamed of, but they still don\u2019t feel successful.\u201d, (28:16). How Zander\u2019s approach unprograms our identities and beliefs that have created the problems we experience, (30:43).    GUEST LINKS:  Website: More on Zander's Sh*t You Don't Learn in College  Website: More on Maddy's Build a Millionaire Mindset    SHOW LINKS:  Purchase 10,000 "No"s Apparel Here to Support the Show  Matt's Amazon Influencer Page (shop thru this site for items mentioned in interviews to support 10KNos at no extra cost to you.)    FOR ANNOUNCEMENTS AND PROMO VIDEOS OF WHO'S NEXT, FOLLOW:   Instagram:  @mattydel  Twitter:  @MatthewDelNegro  Facebook:  Matthew Del Negro Fan Site  LinkedIn:  @MatthewDelNegro  Email us feedback, guest suggestions or to be added to our MAILING LIST     RELATED PAST EPISODES OF 10,000 \u201cNo\u201ds:  Ep 7: Train Your Brain, Hypnotherapist & Meditation Teacher Amy Budden  Ep 11: Panic Attacks to Perfect Life, Craig Ballantyne  Ep 46: Sh*t You Don\u2019t Learn in College, Zander Fryer   Browse Our Episode Archives at 10000nos.com    If you like what you hear, please pass on the word. You can also Subscribe If you like what you hear, please Subscribe, leave an iTunes review and spread the word. You can also listen to all episodes at www.10000nos.com  ","author_name":"10,000 NOs: How to Overcome Rejection on the Way to Your YES","author_url":"https:\/\/www.10000nos.com\/","html":"