{"version":1,"type":"rich","provider_name":"Libsyn","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.libsyn.com","height":90,"width":600,"title":"Understanding the Power of Two, Ep #036","description":"The power of two is inextricably more powerful than what someone can do alone. Having a partner in life and business makes life itself more fulfilling and fun. But how do you know you\u2019re choosing the right friends? The right spouse or business partner? In this episode of Both on Board, Ray and I talk about some of the criteria we use to choose the people we surround ourselves with. Highlights From Our Conversation [0:50] The Power of Two [6:15] How do you choose the right people? [12:50] Do they act with integrity? [16:05] Give relationships time to develop [23:10] What does a good partnership look and feel like? [28:55] Choosing a partner is an art [33:50] Be strategic with relationships [38:10] Couples Cruise coming! It begins with value alignment One of the key things we look at when building relationships with potential friends, business partners, etc. is their value system. For the relationship to work in the long run, we need to align on core values and beliefs. Do they show genuine care for others? Do they give to charities? Do they have a commitment to personal growth? You can\u2019t force someone to meet your values. It\u2019s okay if they\u2019re different. They don\u2019t have to be mirror images of you\u2014you want diversity. But you want to know they are people of integrity, who do what they say they will.  The power of two begins with YOU I rely heavily on my intuition, or \u201cgut feeling\u201d. I\u2019m good at listening and reading body language, whereas Ray is a \u201clove at first sight\u201d kind of guy. Ray instantly vibes with people and thinks they\u2019re amazing. I take time to feel them out. I note if I have synergy with them or not. If it doesn\u2019t feel good or it doesn\u2019t feel easy it\u2019s probably not the right thing to do.  We are on opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to feeling people out. Ray and I balance each other out. I help him be more cautious, and he pushes me to be more open. We leverage the power of two. It takes time to build relationships Along with core value alignment and intuition, you need to factor in time. Is the other person\u2019s behavior in alignment with what they say? Relationships\/partnerships\/friendships don\u2019t get tested until stress is added. As Ray likes to say, how do they act when they get punched in the face?  Don\u2019t get attached to their personality until you know who they are. Sometimes your initial perception is not the reality. People deal with daily stressors and things that impact them\u2014they aren\u2019t always going to put their best face forward. It also depends on how you are showing up. If you aren\u2019t showing up authentically, how can they expect you to? If you are clear on who you are and how you feel about yourself, you\u2019ll attract the same kind of people.  What does a good partnership look like? Ray and I are the first to admit that the right person makes all the difference. As you look at your core values, listen to your intuition, and give the relationship time it comes down to who do you want to be on board with?  You don\u2019t have to be the same, but you have to be on board with each other. A good partnership is about finding a way for both of you to show up authentically as your best selves and create magic. Your differences should melt away as you work in alignment.  Other than personal development, the best way to invest your time is in relationships. You want to be strategic in your decisions and invest in partnerships where you give value to each other. When you choose wisely, the power of two will be more evident and fruitful. To hear how some of our best relationships and partnerships started, how we help balance each other out, and more\u2014listen to the whole episode! Resources & People Mentioned The Power of Two Principles by Ray Dalio The Way of Mastery by the Shanti Christo foundation Connect With Ramon and Christy Schedule a meeting with us now! www.BothOnBoard.com Both On Board on Instagram: @BothOnBoard Ray\u2019s Instagram - @OfficialRamonGonzalez Christy\u2019s Instagram - @ChristyRisco Facebook - Ramon Gonzalez Facebook - Christy Risco Subscribe to Both on Boardon Apple Podcasts, TuneIn, RadioPublic, Google Podcasts, Spotify ","author_name":"Both On Board","author_url":"http:\/\/bothonboard.com","html":"