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  <title>#042: If I don't manipulate--how do I get my kids to do the right things? PART 2</title>
  <description>PART 1 started a discussion about giving our children an honest childhood--which is more than simply a good chance at success.&amp;amp;nbsp; We can manipulate our children to work and perform, but manipulation damages trust instead of builds it.&amp;amp;nbsp; Trusting relationships are necessary if our children are going to grow up, instead of simply meet traditional performance standards for college admissions. Join Janet and Doug in PART 2 as they continue to offer practical ways to relate with our children--instead of manipulating them.&amp;amp;nbsp; PART 2 offers these take aways:  Experiencing life as a parent is more than simply having a toolbox full of good parenting strategies.&amp;amp;nbsp; There is no formula for loving bravely--and there are sound principles we can trust. We can find time for real conversations about our habits of responding to cultural influences instead of personal convictions.&amp;amp;nbsp; These conversations can be more powerful when we are vulnerable enough to say, &amp;quot;Me, too.&amp;quot; This kind of honest conversation is happening in homes where families are building habits of engagement--rather than simply habits of evaluation.  Follow  this link to listen now--and share BRAVE LOVE with your community.&amp;amp;nbsp; Let us know what questions you'd like us to address on a future episode.&amp;amp;nbsp; We'd love to hear from you.&amp;amp;nbsp; There is great hope. &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
  <author_name>LOVE IS FEARLESS</author_name>
  <author_url>https://www.janetnewberry.com/</author_url>
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