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  <title>Joel Stein - Porn, Relationships - Part 2</title>
  <description>It's part 2 with TIME Magazine columnist Joel Stein, and we do not hold back. Some quotes from this episode: &amp;quot;I get very excited when someone has a fetish I don’t have because I feel superior.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;When I hear alcoholics talk about their first drink, I know the intensity when I first saw my first porn magazine. And the self-hatred, and it was so shameful and so intense. It was so big, that feeling, that I wasn’t able to contain it in any vessel in my body. It was super super and still is very intense.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;I listen to healthy men talk about watching porn, and it’s a tool to have an orgasm. To me, masturbation is a tool to watch porn.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;Relationships get established really early. Like you establish a pattern within weeks that lasts for decades.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;A marriage or a relationship is a million tiny acts of bravery, and [Joel's wife Cassandra] was really good at being brave in the moment and bringing the thing up, like when she’s hurt. I really admire that. It’s really hard.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;I need someone to ask me five times before I tell them how I feel, and then I’m mad if they don’t notice.&amp;quot; &amp;amp;nbsp; You can find Joel on Twitter at&amp;amp;nbsp;https://twitter.com/thejoelstein A link to buy his book:&amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.amazon.com/Man-Made-Which-Dad-Learns/dp/0446573116 You can find me on Instagram at&amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.instagram.com/igorpix/ Feel free to write me at howareyouthinkingabout@gmail.com &amp;amp;nbsp; Theme song: Vocals: MACK -&amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.instagram.com/mackandgold/ Mix: Dan Gerbang -&amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.instagram.com/dangerbang/ Writer: Igor Hiller &amp;amp;nbsp; Cover art by George Hilton III:&amp;amp;nbsp;http://georgiecreates.tumblr.com/ Cover design by Eve Survilo:&amp;amp;nbsp;http://www.evesurvilo.com/ &amp;amp;nbsp; Thank you for listening. My favorite palindrome is &amp;quot;A man, a plan, a canal: Panama&amp;quot; </description>
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