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  <title>306| What to Do When Your Manager Keeps Avoiding the Topic</title>
  <description>Nichole shares a step-by-step approach for when you’ve asked for the raise conversation and your manager keeps putting it off. In this episode:  Why being avoided is frustrating and can make you feel invisible Common reasons a manager may put it off: they’re swamped, uncomfortable without good news, don’t have an answer yet, or are under budget pressure Step one: follow up in writing, and keep it friendly Step two: make it easy to say yes by offering a shorter meeting and two or three specific time slots Step three: attach it to something already happening, like putting it on the agenda for your next one-on-one Step four: give it a reason and a date Step five: gently ask what’s getting in the way Step six: keep a factual, neutral record of the dates you asked, how you asked, and the response Step seven: recap any conversation in writing so a vague “let’s talk later” becomes a commitment A gut check: if you’ve followed up several times over a few weeks with specific times and a clear reason and still hear nothing, that’s a pattern, not a scheduling issue Other routes to consider, like HR for process questions or someone above your manager, and whether this is the right place for you to grow Today’s task: Start your log by writing down every time you’ve asked and the date. Then draft one follow-up message that’s friendly, specific, and has a date attached.&amp;amp;nbsp;  Download the 7 Days to Ask for a Raise Challenge to help you confidently ask for a raise&amp;amp;nbsp;here. Connect with Nichole on Instagram&amp;amp;nbsp;@nichole.harrop </description>
  <author_name>Future Female Leaders</author_name>
  <author_url>http://www.nicholeharrop.com</author_url>
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