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  <title>Episode 0159 - Self-Advocacy pt. 1</title>
  <description>Yes, I’d like fries with that! It’s not just a delicious, salty treat, but also an easy acronym for ensuring consent. F.R.I.E.S. is an easy way remember that consent is:&amp;amp;nbsp;   F: Freely Given   R: Reversible   I: Informed   E: Enthusiastic   S: Specific   If your consent doesn’t have F.R.I.E.S. then you might not fully enjoy your “meal” or play experience. After a lovely class at GASP 2026, in which they used candy to discuss consent, and went through some fantastic role-playing, we had to have these lovely and hard-working ladies on the podcast to share their techniques for self-advocacy!&amp;amp;nbsp; It’s not easy to speak up for yourself, especially when many of us love to please our partners. But that’s exactly what being your own advocate is about. And for a fun scene, it’s important not just to please your partner, but to get your needs met and protect your own boundaries as well.&amp;amp;nbsp; Whether it’s salty or sweet, F.R.I.E.S. or candy, this discussion has something for every taste.&amp;amp;nbsp; There was just too much here for one episode, so do stay tuned for part 2. &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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