1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 Welcome to The Daily. I want to give a shout today to Gordo Christianson&amp;nbsp;from Verton, VT. Thanks for being a Project23 donor as we teach through every book of the Bible over 23 years. We cannot do this without you. Read more about Project23. Our text today is Esther 1:9-12 Queen Vashti also gave a feast for the women in the palace that belonged to King Ahasuerus. On the seventh day, when the heart of the king was merry with wine, he commanded Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha and Abagtha, Zethar and Carkas, the seven eunuchs who served in the presence of King Ahasuerus, to bring Queen Vashti before the king with her royal crown, in order to show the peoples and the princes her beauty, for she was lovely to look at. But Queen Vashti refused to come at the king’s command delivered by the eunuchs. At this the king became enraged, and his anger burned within him. — Esther 1:9-12 Nothing exposes our need for control faster than hearing the word no. Remember, Ahasuerus had spent six months displaying his wealth and power. Then, on the final day of another seven-day feast, with his heart “merry with wine,” he commanded seven eunuchs—castrated male officials who served in the royal palace and were often assigned to women’s quarters because they posed no sexual threat—to bring Queen Vashti before his guests. What he was trying to do was display her beauty, just as he had displayed everything else. But Vashti refused. We need to be careful in our interpretation here because the text never tells us why she refused. We do not know if she was being courageous, defiant, wise, or wrong. But what is unmistakably clear is the king’s reaction to her action: “The king became enraged, and his anger burned within him.” This moment reveals a great deal about the king. We often focus on what someone “did to us” because it helps us avoid what their action exposed in us. You see, Vashti’s refusal did not create the king’s pride, insecurity, or need for control. It exposed what was already there. And resistance does the same thing in us. My will does not enjoy being resisted. I doubt yours does either. When our plans are interrupted, our advice is ignored, our authority is questioned, or someone refuses to do what we want, anger can rise quickly. The easy explanation is: They’re the problem. But anger often sits on top of something deeper—a threatened desire, wounded pride, lost control, or fear of embarrassment. Ahasuerus’s concern was not his relationship with Vashti. He needed her compliance to preserve the image he had spent months building. Her refusal threatened his public image, and his anger exposed just how fragile that image really was. The book of James teaches that conflict often comes from desires at war within us. We want something, and when we do not get it, we react. This does not mean every form of anger is sinful. Jesus became angry at hard hearts and injustice. But righteous anger seeks God’s honor and another person’s good. Selfish anger protects my image, comfort, timeline, and control. Here is a question I have had to ask myself in my own anger: What am I trying to protect right now? This one question can expose the idol hiding behind my anger. Unlike Ahasuerus, Jesus possessed all authority, yet he did not use his power to protect his public image. When he was rejected, mocked, and opposed, he entrusted himself to the Father. On the way to the cross, he did not retaliate. He surrendered himself for us. That is power under God’s control. So before you defend your reaction today, let God examine it. Maybe that interruption, disagreement, or refusal is not merely a problem to remove. Maybe it is an opportunity to reveal where you still demand control. Being told no does not have to make you burn with anger. It can become an invitation to surrender to the true King. DO THIS: When irritation rises today, do not respond immediately. Identify the desire beneath your anger and surrender it to God before you speak. ASK THIS: What usually triggers my anger? What am I trying to control? How would surrender change my response? PRAY THIS: Father, reveal what my anger is protecting and teach me to surrender control to you. Amen. PLAY THIS: I Surrender All. The Daily + Weekly by Vince Miller https://beresolute.org/vincemillerspeaker <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/42556430/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/42556430