1 rich Libsyn https://www.libsyn.com 90 600 In recent episodes, we’ve been exploring some of the more counterintuitive things in healing and personal transformation—the things that can seem positive on the surface, yet sometimes backfire or keep people stuck. And this episode feels like divine timing because the pattern that came up is such a tricky one. So often, people desperately want to help the ones they love the most. They want them to heal. They want them to feel better. They want them to have an incredible life. And it can come from the most genuine, loving place. But what happens when the person you are trying so hard to help begins pulling away? In this short breakthrough episode, Brandy shares an important insight from working with a beautiful volunteer who genuinely wanted the very best for the people she loved. Her intentions were caring. Her heart was in the right place. And yet, without realizing it, the more she tried to help and change the people around her, the more frustration and disconnection began showing up. That is what makes this pattern so easy to miss. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why loving intentions can sometimes create an unexpected response How trying to help can become emotionally triggering for both people Why someone may begin pulling away even when your intentions are completely genuine The simple perspective shift that helped Brandy’s volunteer see the pattern differently How more love, connection, and understanding can begin changing the dynamic Sometimes the very thing that comes from love can create a result you never intended. And once you see what is really happening underneath, it can completely change the way you approach the people you care about. &amp;nbsp; → Continue Your Self-Healing Journey Listen to the Full Volunteer Self-Healing Session Click here to access today’s self-healing session as Brandy Gillmore works directly with Tasha Free Mind-Body Healing Training If you’d like a deeper understanding of mind-body healing and how self-healing works: Click here to join the FREE training. Brandy Gillmore’s Mind-Body Healing: Scientific Research If you’d like scientific research on mind-body healing, you can view Brandy Gillmore’s work published in a Medical Journal. Personal Empowerment and Self-Healing Courses If you’re ready to heal yourself and change your life: Click here to explore our GIFT Mind-Body Healing™ and the GIFT Method™ Courses and GIFT Workshops. Connect With Brandy Follow Brandy on Facebook Follow Brandy on Instagram Questions? Discover more at https://brandygillmore.com or email support@BrandyGillmore.com &amp;nbsp; Important Note: This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a replacement for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please continue to consult your doctor or qualified healthcare provider as recommended. Click here to view our full disclaimer- https://brandygillmore.com/terms/. © Brandy Gillmore / Human Potential Revolution, Inc. All Rights Reserved. This podcast and all related content are provided solely for personal, noncommercial use. No portion may be copied, recorded, transcribed, closely paraphrased, adapted, repackaged, distributed, taught, or used to create or support any course, coaching program, training, certification, product, service, or derivative content without prior written permission. This content may not be uploaded to, entered into, stored in, used by, or incorporated into any artificial-intelligence, machine-learning, voice-cloning, digital-replica, data-training, or related system. By accessing, listening to, viewing, downloading, or otherwise using this content, you agree to our Intellectual Property and Content Use Terms. If you do not agree, do not access or use the content. Full Terms: https://brandygillmore.com/content-terms&amp;nbsp; Permissions: support@brandygillmore.com&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp; Heal Yourself. Change Your Life™ https://brandygillmore.com/podcast-episodes/ <iframe title="Libsyn Player" style="border: none" src="//html5-player.libsyn.com/embed/episode/id/42496775/height/90/theme/custom/thumbnail/yes/direction/forward/render-playlist/no/custom-color/88AA3C/" height="90" width="600" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen webkitallowfullscreen mozallowfullscreen oallowfullscreen msallowfullscreen></iframe> https://assets.libsyn.com/secure/item/42496775