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  <title>How to figure out anything: get honest, get clear, get to work</title>
  <description>  Seven and a half years in, and I’ve been thinking a lot about what this show is really for – and what it means to actually figure it out.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp;   In this solo episode, I’m sharing something I’ve been sitting with awhile: a method I’ve been using my whole life without even realizing it. It’s not something I invented and then applied – it’s a pattern I traced backwards through my career, my relationships, and the chapter I’m in right now. And I think if you’re the kind of person who listens to this show, you’ve probably been using some version of it too.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp;   I’m also sharing a little history of the show – how it started as How We’ll Live back in 2019, how it became Figure It Out, and where it’s going from here. This episode is a bit of a reintroduction, and I hope it feels like the start of something new.&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp;   I talk about:&amp;amp;nbsp;    The origin story of Figuring It Out – and How We’ll Live to where we are now, and why the name still means everything&amp;amp;nbsp;   Why Figuring It Out is a practice, not a destination   Introducing the Figuring It Out Method: know your story → get honest —&amp;amp;gt; get clear → get to work   What “know your story” actually means – and why it’s the foundation, not a step   Why getting honest is the hardest part (and why it starts with a feeling, not a thought)   How to get clear in a way that’s actually useful   What “get to work” really looks like: the unglamorous repeated effort that closes the gap   Real examples from my own life   What this means for the show going forward  &amp;amp;nbsp;   Connect with Hailey:    Connect with me on Instagram&amp;amp;nbsp;   ShopMy - What I’m Loving Lately  &amp;amp;nbsp;   Email:  Hailey@hailey-miller.com  &amp;amp;nbsp;   Timestamps:    0:00  Welcome back   1:00  What’s been going on - low key summer, planned spontaneity, and why white space matters   3:15  Show history and how I landed on the name Figuring It Out&amp;amp;nbsp;   8:30  How the show is evolving – getting more specific, for women in their 30s and 40s navigating real change&amp;amp;nbsp;   9:50  Introducing the Figuring It Out method   11:45  The Foundation: Know Your Story   13:45  Step 1: Get Honest   14:35  Step 2: Get Clear&amp;amp;nbsp;   15:07  Step 3: Get to work&amp;amp;nbsp;   15:42  Example 1: Career   18:03  Example 2: My Marriage&amp;amp;nbsp;   20:19  Example 3: Fertility&amp;amp;nbsp;   22:54  You’re not alone&amp;amp;nbsp;   24:21  What this means for the show moving forward  </description>
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