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  <title>The Strengths That Are Secretly Costing You</title>
  <description>You're the reliable one, the one who's always five steps ahead and seems to have it all together. But what if those strengths are secretly costing you? 🎓 FREE TRAINING: How to overcome high-functioning anxiety (on-demand, watch anytime): https://calmlycoping.com/workshop &amp;amp;nbsp; In this episode, you'll learn: 👉 Why your most praised strengths might be quietly costing you 👉&amp;amp;nbsp;How to tell the difference between genuine drive and anxiety in disguise 👉 How to keep the strengths you value while changing what's fueling them &amp;amp;nbsp; ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 The Reliable One Trap 01:26 High Achiever Burnout Signs 02:18 Same Output, Different Fuel 03:21 High Functioning Anxiety Explained 03:58 Research Breakdown 06:10 Shift the Fuel Practical Tips 08:49 Stop Earning Your Rest &amp;amp;nbsp; 📚 RESOURCES + SOURCES MENTIONED  Perfectionistic strivings vs. perfectionistic concerns: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5303723/ Perfectionism and burnout:  https://researchportal.bath.ac.uk/en/publications/9e5e8dd7-4507-4ba9-ad6f-41d13216e7e2/ Episode: Do You Have Unrealistic Expectations? https://www.becalmwithtati.com/unrealistic-expectations/  YouTube: https://youtu.be/xEkbSU53zJo Episode: What To Do If You Feel Guilty Relaxing: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/feel-guilty-relaxing/  YouTube: https://youtu.be/2HB9DL2bJlg Free Quiz: Do you have high-functioning anxiety? https://www.becalmwithtati.com/high-functioning-anxiety-quiz/  &amp;amp;nbsp; 🎓 Ready to go deeper? Watch my free on-demand training on overcoming high-functioning anxiety:&amp;amp;nbsp;https://calmlycoping.com/workshop 🎤 SPEAKING: I deliver talks and workshops helping high-performing teams manage pressure without burning out: https://www.becalmwithtati.com/speaking/ CONNECT WITH ME Website: https://www.becalmwithtati.com  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatianaglpc/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatianaglpc/  Podcast: https://calmlycoping.com Calmly Coping is a podcast for high-achievers who struggle with high-functioning anxiety, helping you feel calmer, more balanced, and more confident from within. 🎵 Intro/Outro Music: Rescue Me (Instrumental) by Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/57990 Ft: Copperhead 📄 Disclaimer All content here is for informational purposes only. This content does not replace the professional judgment of your own mental health provider. Please consult a licensed mental health professional for all individual questions and issues. </description>
  <author_name>Calmly Coping</author_name>
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