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  <title>The Friends You've Outgrown (Nobody Warns You About This)</title>
  <description>You can love someone and still outgrow the version of yourself that exists around them.&amp;amp;nbsp; And nobody warns you about this part of changing your life.&amp;amp;nbsp; We talk about the habits you'll have to change, the risks you'll have to take, the courage it takes to walk away from something familiar.&amp;amp;nbsp; We don't talk nearly enough about what happens when the people you love are still connected to the person you used to be.&amp;amp;nbsp; This episode is about friendship, growth, and the strange, sometimes painful experience of realizing that a relationship that once fit your life may not fit the life you're building now.&amp;amp;nbsp; Because every room has an invisible definition of what's normal.&amp;amp;nbsp; What you're allowed to want. What feels possible. What seems too ambitious, too risky, too expensive, or simply not like you.&amp;amp;nbsp; And sometimes, all it takes is getting close to one woman who is already doing the thing you thought was impossible.&amp;amp;nbsp; She doesn't have to coach you. She doesn't have to give you a ten-step plan.&amp;amp;nbsp; Sometimes another woman gives you evidence.&amp;amp;nbsp; In this episode, we're talking about:&amp;amp;nbsp;  What it actually means to outgrow people&amp;amp;nbsp; Why the people you love may still be relating to who you used to be&amp;amp;nbsp; How the people around you shape what feels normal and possible&amp;amp;nbsp; Why outgrowing a room isn't the same as abandoning the people in it&amp;amp;nbsp; Why courage, desire and aliveness is contagious&amp;amp;nbsp; Powerful questions to audit the spaces you're spending time in&amp;amp;nbsp; Why I created The Society and why it's the antidote to being stuck&amp;amp;nbsp; This isn't about deciding your old friends aren't 'good enough' anymore&amp;amp;nbsp;  It's about recognizing that you may need people in your life who have evidence of where you're going, not only memories of where you've been.&amp;amp;nbsp; And maybe the question isn't simply, 'Who have I outgrown?'&amp;amp;nbsp; Maybe it's, 'Who do I become when I'm around the people in my life?'&amp;amp;nbsp; You're invited to The Society's Opening Weekend&amp;amp;nbsp; From July 24-26, we're gathering for three live experiences:&amp;amp;nbsp; Happy Hour, Coffee Chat, and Sparkle Party.&amp;amp;nbsp; Come to one. Come to all three. Opening Weekend is completely free.&amp;amp;nbsp; SAVE YOUR SEAT HERE&amp;amp;nbsp; Your next chapter may begin with one conversation, one new room, or one woman who makes you realize that the thing you want isn't nearly as impossible as you thought.&amp;amp;nbsp; Go find her....or maybe, come find us.&amp;amp;nbsp;&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
  <author_name>The Selfish Woman</author_name>
  <author_url>https://www.valeriejones.ca</author_url>
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