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  <title>276 Why You Never Get Over Grief -and Why That's Good with Thomas Attig</title>
  <description>Grief is not a problem to be solved or something we simply “get over.” In this profound conversation, Dr. Gillian Lockitch speaks with philosopher and grief expert Thomas Attig about mourning as a lifelong process of relearning how to live in a world forever changed by loss. Drawing on decades of scholarship and personal insight, Thomas explains how grief can deepen our love, strengthen resilience, and help us find wisdom and meaning in life’s most difficult transitions. This episode offers compassionate guidance for anyone grieving a loved one or supporting someone through loss. Thomas Attig is an internationally recognized philosopher, educator, and authority on grief, death, and bereavement.&amp;amp;nbsp;He earned his BA and PhD in philosophy from Northwestern University and Washington University in St. Louis.&amp;amp;nbsp;During his career at Bowling Green State University, he helped establish the world’s first PhD program in applied philosophy.&amp;amp;nbsp;He is a Fellow of the International Work Group on Death, Dying, and Bereavement.&amp;amp;nbsp;Dr. Attig is the author of several influential books, including&amp;amp;nbsp;How We Grieve&amp;amp;nbsp;and&amp;amp;nbsp;Seeking Wisdom in Death’s Shadows. Episode Timeline&amp;amp;nbsp; 00:00 – Welcome and introduction&amp;amp;nbsp; 00:30 – Why grief is central to healthy aging and emotional well-being&amp;amp;nbsp; 04:06 – Tom Attig’s early experiences with death and family loss&amp;amp;nbsp; 08:45 – Teaching the first university course on death and dying&amp;amp;nbsp; 11:30 – Grief as relearning how to live in the world&amp;amp;nbsp; 13:11 – Dr. Gillian shares the loss of her husband&amp;amp;nbsp; 15:44 – Grief reaction versus grief response&amp;amp;nbsp; 18:00 – Learning to love in separation&amp;amp;nbsp; 22:00 – Moving from sorrow to gratitude&amp;amp;nbsp; 24:52 – The purpose and structure of&amp;amp;nbsp;Seeking Wisdom in Death’s Shadows&amp;amp;nbsp; 27:00 – Problems versus mysteries in life and grief&amp;amp;nbsp; 31:42 – One essential truth for anyone who is grieving&amp;amp;nbsp; &amp;amp;nbsp;Connect with Thomas Attig PhD Book:&amp;amp;nbsp;Seeking Wisdom in Death’s Shadows: Collected Writings on How We Grieve&amp;amp;nbsp; Publisher:&amp;amp;nbsp;Oxford University Press&amp;amp;nbsp; Website:&amp;amp;nbsp;Thomas Attig Author Page&amp;amp;nbsp; 30% Discount Code: AUFLY30&amp;amp;nbsp; Dr. Lockitch Call to Action&amp;amp;nbsp; Subscribe to&amp;amp;nbsp;Growing Older Living Younger&amp;amp;nbsp;on your favorite podcast platform and leave a review to help others discover the show. Join the Growing Older Living Younger Community&amp;amp;nbsp; Connect with Dr. Gillian Lockitch at&amp;amp;nbsp;https://www.askdrgill.com/&amp;amp;nbsp;or email:&amp;amp;nbsp;askdrgill@gmail.com&amp;amp;nbsp; Download Guide to Nature’s Colorful Antioxidants 2026&amp;amp;nbsp; </description>
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